I sent an email telling her how much I love her, but I am walking away because I can not take the hurt from being pushed away. I then said you do not need to reply or text, im just going to disappear. She did not reply, wouldn't that warrant a response? whats really going on here?She loves me but is scared due to past relationships, now she wont answer the phone or reply texts?
If She Has Been Hurt By Relationships In The Past Then What You Have Done Has Probably Brought Back All Those Memories!! If You Love Someone You Are Meant To Be There For Them Throught It All!! It's Not Always Easy But It Is Worth It. =)
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Long distance relationships do they work?
So i am falling in love with the perfect guy for me. The only problem is that he lives in Scotland and i live in Texas, USA. He is 18 and i am 17 and i we can't fly to each other cause we don't have enough money.
We talk on webcam and we text and email. I was just wanting to know if long distance relationships ever work out? Please no people saying he might be a 40 year old pedifial or anything like that cause he is not.Long distance relationships do they work?
I'm sure there are incidences where they ever have worked, but---
With no history of an in-person';, physical relationship, I would say it would be very, very difficult to make a long distance relationship work. If you had met in person, developed a relationship and then were separated, it would d be hard. Without this foundation, I would say it would next to impossible. Especially at your age, you both should be enjoying the physical companionship of one another. I think you'll find that both of you, over time, are going to want to enjoy having someone you can kiss, hug, hold hands with, etc. As long as you are prepared to either give or receive a webcam-based or email break-up, I wouldn't put all of my emotional eggs in this basket.Long distance relationships do they work?
Well, unless you met each other in real life and not online, and then under some circumstance had to move away from each other, that's the only time a long distance relationship is really viable.
Unless you actually got to know each other in person, there's really not much point in pursuing this. It's easier to talk to someone over the internet, but if you spent that time talking to people where you live, you'd fine guys that are really nice too.
And, unless you have enough money to make trips to see each other every few months, there really is no point. o_O Unfortunately.
I'm in a long distance relationship right now between Toronto and Singapore, so I am not just talking out of my ***. I know how these things work heheh. You should have met him first, and THEN pursued a LD relationship, you're going about it the wrong way. Keep up with him as buddies or pen pals or whatever, but because of the fact that nothing physical will happen, just find someone wherever you live, it's much more satisfying.
well they dont really work out cause you never know what he is doing behimd your back. even tho her might not do anything. and anyways i know this one couple and he lives in AZ and she lives in CA and they see each other about every weekend because her mom is a pilot and she gets free air fares. so i dont think a long distance relationship will work because you cant see him like you would a normal boyfriend
ur safe if u hv toked to him over the webcam, but still not 100% safe. cos he may be reading out the dialogues at the back and telling some other guy, younger or older, to lip sync for him. i know it sounds crazy, but we have to consider all possibilities, right? after all its a matter abt ur life. so play it safe. dont trust anyone whom u hv not met, be it even if u hv seen him or her on the webcam. anything is possible. protect urself. long distance relationships, in most cases, i wud say, atleast 95% cases, fails. this is cos the ability to sustain oneself from meeting the other, goes away wid the passage of time. so my advice for u wud be to back out.
Probably not for the long term. I think of long distance in terms of 3 or 4 hours separation. Still, you have the possibility of the future. Maybe, a holiday together. Or attending same college. The youth factor makes your chances greater, than the percentage would be if you were both settled into a career. Hope it works out for both of you. Enjoy what you have.
yes they do work if you make them if you love each other then you can make it work
ive been with my girlfriend online for over 2 months but ive known her for 7
were hoping to get married
when you have enough money or you guys could put your money together so one of you can travel to the other
yes they work im in one and have been for 1 year and 1/2 now, and i know hes not cheating. if you trust him they will work!
good luck
oh btw im 14 and my bfs 16 and he only lives 30 min. away but still its long distance
ugh... that's a hard one.. but i would have to say they CAN work, it just depends on if hes the right guy! so i really hope it works out for you in the end, and good luck.
for me, they never work.
that's just my experience so i don't waste my time on them. but if you really feel that it could work and you trust him enough, it might work out. just be careful.
yeperoodle they work! theyre the best kind of relatioiship. and the best part is you can cheat on them and they wont even know. you go girl!
If he's not cheating on you or reverse. but its hard to know, there's a limit to how much you really know about that person. It might work.
No
depends on how they live...
yes they work, it is true love.
no
never, dont evn bother its either u meet anotha guy or he meet anotha grl... life
They can work but you have to make them work.
Im in a LDR with my girlfriend (she lives in NV, USA + I live in England). Its worked for us but it is not easy at times. You have to talk alot (I speak to her everyday - no exception).
We try to see each other every few months but you defiantly need to look at meeting if you haven't met before. I met my girlfriend online and when we met (i flew there) I was so nervous but let me say it was magical.
Tell your boyfriend to get skype and he can call your phone for 1p (a penny) a minute if your not at home. Dont let anyone tell you it wont work or else it WILL fail. If you both want it then it will work just be VERY patient.
I trust my girlfriend and she trusts me - theres no differencee between long and short distance relationship as they both need trust. Not everyone is the same - there are some genuine people out there. Good Luck and I hope it works out for you.
We talk on webcam and we text and email. I was just wanting to know if long distance relationships ever work out? Please no people saying he might be a 40 year old pedifial or anything like that cause he is not.Long distance relationships do they work?
I'm sure there are incidences where they ever have worked, but---
With no history of an in-person';, physical relationship, I would say it would be very, very difficult to make a long distance relationship work. If you had met in person, developed a relationship and then were separated, it would d be hard. Without this foundation, I would say it would next to impossible. Especially at your age, you both should be enjoying the physical companionship of one another. I think you'll find that both of you, over time, are going to want to enjoy having someone you can kiss, hug, hold hands with, etc. As long as you are prepared to either give or receive a webcam-based or email break-up, I wouldn't put all of my emotional eggs in this basket.Long distance relationships do they work?
Well, unless you met each other in real life and not online, and then under some circumstance had to move away from each other, that's the only time a long distance relationship is really viable.
Unless you actually got to know each other in person, there's really not much point in pursuing this. It's easier to talk to someone over the internet, but if you spent that time talking to people where you live, you'd fine guys that are really nice too.
And, unless you have enough money to make trips to see each other every few months, there really is no point. o_O Unfortunately.
I'm in a long distance relationship right now between Toronto and Singapore, so I am not just talking out of my ***. I know how these things work heheh. You should have met him first, and THEN pursued a LD relationship, you're going about it the wrong way. Keep up with him as buddies or pen pals or whatever, but because of the fact that nothing physical will happen, just find someone wherever you live, it's much more satisfying.
well they dont really work out cause you never know what he is doing behimd your back. even tho her might not do anything. and anyways i know this one couple and he lives in AZ and she lives in CA and they see each other about every weekend because her mom is a pilot and she gets free air fares. so i dont think a long distance relationship will work because you cant see him like you would a normal boyfriend
ur safe if u hv toked to him over the webcam, but still not 100% safe. cos he may be reading out the dialogues at the back and telling some other guy, younger or older, to lip sync for him. i know it sounds crazy, but we have to consider all possibilities, right? after all its a matter abt ur life. so play it safe. dont trust anyone whom u hv not met, be it even if u hv seen him or her on the webcam. anything is possible. protect urself. long distance relationships, in most cases, i wud say, atleast 95% cases, fails. this is cos the ability to sustain oneself from meeting the other, goes away wid the passage of time. so my advice for u wud be to back out.
Probably not for the long term. I think of long distance in terms of 3 or 4 hours separation. Still, you have the possibility of the future. Maybe, a holiday together. Or attending same college. The youth factor makes your chances greater, than the percentage would be if you were both settled into a career. Hope it works out for both of you. Enjoy what you have.
yes they do work if you make them if you love each other then you can make it work
ive been with my girlfriend online for over 2 months but ive known her for 7
were hoping to get married
when you have enough money or you guys could put your money together so one of you can travel to the other
yes they work im in one and have been for 1 year and 1/2 now, and i know hes not cheating. if you trust him they will work!
good luck
oh btw im 14 and my bfs 16 and he only lives 30 min. away but still its long distance
ugh... that's a hard one.. but i would have to say they CAN work, it just depends on if hes the right guy! so i really hope it works out for you in the end, and good luck.
for me, they never work.
that's just my experience so i don't waste my time on them. but if you really feel that it could work and you trust him enough, it might work out. just be careful.
yeperoodle they work! theyre the best kind of relatioiship. and the best part is you can cheat on them and they wont even know. you go girl!
If he's not cheating on you or reverse. but its hard to know, there's a limit to how much you really know about that person. It might work.
No
depends on how they live...
yes they work, it is true love.
no
never, dont evn bother its either u meet anotha guy or he meet anotha grl... life
They can work but you have to make them work.
Im in a LDR with my girlfriend (she lives in NV, USA + I live in England). Its worked for us but it is not easy at times. You have to talk alot (I speak to her everyday - no exception).
We try to see each other every few months but you defiantly need to look at meeting if you haven't met before. I met my girlfriend online and when we met (i flew there) I was so nervous but let me say it was magical.
Tell your boyfriend to get skype and he can call your phone for 1p (a penny) a minute if your not at home. Dont let anyone tell you it wont work or else it WILL fail. If you both want it then it will work just be VERY patient.
I trust my girlfriend and she trusts me - theres no differencee between long and short distance relationship as they both need trust. Not everyone is the same - there are some genuine people out there. Good Luck and I hope it works out for you.
Are changing gender roles in media and work affecting relationships -?
between girls and boys at school, college, and in the average household?Are changing gender roles in media and work affecting relationships -?
As masculinity continues to be marginalized, relationships between the sexes will suffer.Are changing gender roles in media and work affecting relationships -?
Yes; in various ways that depend on the individuals. As time goes on, with each generation, individuals are less confused about gender roles as the culture settles down in a greater degree of equality, while at the same time seeking more of it because we're not quite there yet. Some women want to wear the pants, and have trouble in relationships because they need a man who is a wussy in order to have a man who follows her and her career goals and lets her lead. Most women want to make genuinely mutual decisions and not have a power conflict in the relationship but in those cases, the men often want power and a certain amount of it. They may not want to dominate, but feel just a little above the woman so as to not bruise his ego. Most women don't mind this so much because they like to be overpowered and submissive, to a degree. They don't want to be disrespected but do like a man to be bigger in many ways.
Relationships based on equality and mutual respect are of course superior to those based on inequality and disrespect. However, gender roles are better taught at home, where values become internalized, and then they can carry through to the media and work situations.
hahaha sooo much!!! women fighting for their rights has now kicked them in the butt!!! not their fault..im a woman and I experience it daily.
women faught tobe THOUGHT of as equal and for respect, well deserved..also for ability to get awayfrom abusive men! Thank God!
but!!! now a woman HAS to work..... HAS to go to mcdonalds and flip burgers with her kids at home... thats not right! and now MEN have (as always ) became ridiculous and always try to take advantage of women one way or other..so now men LOOK for women for THEIR money..roles have reversed!
people DONT realize..... thatif all women said at the same time (100 million women in this country).. ';im not going to work anymore';
then for the economy to survive and stay the same.. themen would suddenly earn DOUBLE!!! so for the one man and one woman making $8 each at mcdonalds..the man would suddenly make $16 an hour.. its simple economy..simple math. (im not figuring inhto this equation the illegal aliens here)
but anyway... no woman ever fought with blood and tears to work all day at a dead end retial or fast food job..with her kids at home..... they fought for freedom because men were MEAN to them..plain and simple..its a womans RIGHT to stay home and have a man care for her every need... but to be dependent on a man is scary cuz theyre just not always that good! can youimagine how men would bust their *** and provide your EVERY need ....... if women didnt work.. and if NO woman EVERRRRRRRRRR had sex outside of marriage???? even the highest paid prostitute could NEVER compete with how much a married woman is cared for!!! this would get rid of prostitution..... its all really sad.
of course anywoman could still work.. tobe a great thing like president,lawyer scientist etc... im talking about the MAJORITY working stupid jobs that they dont even want to but HAVE to..which takes time away from relationship with husband and kids..what a woman has to offer is worth ALLLLL the money a man makes..she is the reason he goes to work!!!! women arent wired the same..so when a man depends on a woman to pay half thebills and THEN expects sex from her when she is so damn tired her inner female nature kicks in and says wait a minute!!!!! DIVORCE!!!!!!!!!!! it's ridiculous for a man to have a female ';financial partner'; thats what other men are for!!!!! go find a man to be a financial partner!!! start a business or whatever....
Imean if that man expects money from his wife andsex and good motherhood etc etc he is a dumbass.
You mean if someone is in a relationship and they change their gender? Like an operation? That would ';affect'; the relationship a great deal and this can not be overstated, I repeat.
As masculinity continues to be marginalized, relationships between the sexes will suffer.Are changing gender roles in media and work affecting relationships -?
Yes; in various ways that depend on the individuals. As time goes on, with each generation, individuals are less confused about gender roles as the culture settles down in a greater degree of equality, while at the same time seeking more of it because we're not quite there yet. Some women want to wear the pants, and have trouble in relationships because they need a man who is a wussy in order to have a man who follows her and her career goals and lets her lead. Most women want to make genuinely mutual decisions and not have a power conflict in the relationship but in those cases, the men often want power and a certain amount of it. They may not want to dominate, but feel just a little above the woman so as to not bruise his ego. Most women don't mind this so much because they like to be overpowered and submissive, to a degree. They don't want to be disrespected but do like a man to be bigger in many ways.
Relationships based on equality and mutual respect are of course superior to those based on inequality and disrespect. However, gender roles are better taught at home, where values become internalized, and then they can carry through to the media and work situations.
hahaha sooo much!!! women fighting for their rights has now kicked them in the butt!!! not their fault..im a woman and I experience it daily.
women faught tobe THOUGHT of as equal and for respect, well deserved..also for ability to get awayfrom abusive men! Thank God!
but!!! now a woman HAS to work..... HAS to go to mcdonalds and flip burgers with her kids at home... thats not right! and now MEN have (as always ) became ridiculous and always try to take advantage of women one way or other..so now men LOOK for women for THEIR money..roles have reversed!
people DONT realize..... thatif all women said at the same time (100 million women in this country).. ';im not going to work anymore';
then for the economy to survive and stay the same.. themen would suddenly earn DOUBLE!!! so for the one man and one woman making $8 each at mcdonalds..the man would suddenly make $16 an hour.. its simple economy..simple math. (im not figuring inhto this equation the illegal aliens here)
but anyway... no woman ever fought with blood and tears to work all day at a dead end retial or fast food job..with her kids at home..... they fought for freedom because men were MEAN to them..plain and simple..its a womans RIGHT to stay home and have a man care for her every need... but to be dependent on a man is scary cuz theyre just not always that good! can youimagine how men would bust their *** and provide your EVERY need ....... if women didnt work.. and if NO woman EVERRRRRRRRRR had sex outside of marriage???? even the highest paid prostitute could NEVER compete with how much a married woman is cared for!!! this would get rid of prostitution..... its all really sad.
of course anywoman could still work.. tobe a great thing like president,lawyer scientist etc... im talking about the MAJORITY working stupid jobs that they dont even want to but HAVE to..which takes time away from relationship with husband and kids..what a woman has to offer is worth ALLLLL the money a man makes..she is the reason he goes to work!!!! women arent wired the same..so when a man depends on a woman to pay half thebills and THEN expects sex from her when she is so damn tired her inner female nature kicks in and says wait a minute!!!!! DIVORCE!!!!!!!!!!! it's ridiculous for a man to have a female ';financial partner'; thats what other men are for!!!!! go find a man to be a financial partner!!! start a business or whatever....
Imean if that man expects money from his wife andsex and good motherhood etc etc he is a dumbass.
You mean if someone is in a relationship and they change their gender? Like an operation? That would ';affect'; the relationship a great deal and this can not be overstated, I repeat.
Are Bad Relationships Wasted Time or a Learning Experience?
I gave her every chance to go back to him, but she said it was absolutely over.
Then she goes away for the night with him.
If she wanted to be with him, why did she waste my time?Are Bad Relationships Wasted Time or a Learning Experience?
We live... and we learn... and sometimes it hurts like hell.Are Bad Relationships Wasted Time or a Learning Experience?
Gotta be assertive about what you want, bro
Everything in life is a learning experience
Wasting time can be a learning experience
Both wasted time and learning experience.I want to say something for her if it doesn't hurt u.Can I?
She is a b***h,she is a trash,let her go to hell,don't give her a f**k.
Relationships always build experience, no matter how worthless they may seem.
She does not know what she wants.
No relationship waste of time if there fukkking involvd
anyway bad relationships are learning experiences.
My boyfriend just walked off and left me today. He was a total waste of my time. But, i did learn not to date guys younger than me anymore!
learning experience. but dont waste time on a relationship that you want to end.
learning experience, and give a lil more details plz
Then she goes away for the night with him.
If she wanted to be with him, why did she waste my time?Are Bad Relationships Wasted Time or a Learning Experience?
We live... and we learn... and sometimes it hurts like hell.Are Bad Relationships Wasted Time or a Learning Experience?
Gotta be assertive about what you want, bro
Everything in life is a learning experience
Wasting time can be a learning experience
Both wasted time and learning experience.I want to say something for her if it doesn't hurt u.Can I?
She is a b***h,she is a trash,let her go to hell,don't give her a f**k.
Relationships always build experience, no matter how worthless they may seem.
She does not know what she wants.
No relationship waste of time if there fukkking involvd
anyway bad relationships are learning experiences.
My boyfriend just walked off and left me today. He was a total waste of my time. But, i did learn not to date guys younger than me anymore!
learning experience. but dont waste time on a relationship that you want to end.
learning experience, and give a lil more details plz
Do you think woman with children, who continuously has relationships with abusive men, should have her kids?
removed from her care? I know WAY too many kids growing up in this mess. Abuse, drugs, Some of these women think a ';man'; in their lives is more important than the welfare of the kids! I hate the thought of the kids in foster care, but something has to be done! What do you think?Do you think woman with children, who continuously has relationships with abusive men, should have her kids?
I agree with you totally, some women just don't know how to be good mothers, and it's always the children that pay the price for their mistakes :(
Take care you, Lulu xDo you think woman with children, who continuously has relationships with abusive men, should have her kids?
I agree with you, kids are affected by their parents and all that goes on, so if she is so desperate to be with a man then she should give up her children and obviously she puts herself first.
Yes, I think the children should be taken from women who do not show proper judgement and care.
i think that woman needs to realize that she's smarter than that.....
she just needs to make sure that she keeps those abusive men out of her and her kids life.
I agree with you totally, some women just don't know how to be good mothers, and it's always the children that pay the price for their mistakes :(
Take care you, Lulu xDo you think woman with children, who continuously has relationships with abusive men, should have her kids?
I agree with you, kids are affected by their parents and all that goes on, so if she is so desperate to be with a man then she should give up her children and obviously she puts herself first.
Yes, I think the children should be taken from women who do not show proper judgement and care.
i think that woman needs to realize that she's smarter than that.....
she just needs to make sure that she keeps those abusive men out of her and her kids life.
What do you think about people who start their relationships online?
so, guy meets girl online and they chat and after a while they become intrested in each other. do u think that it can evolve into a real love/some other feelings.. or u dont believe that it can ever become anything real and is nothing than just a stupid chatWhat do you think about people who start their relationships online?
I think its great. People are getting tired of the same old crappy way of meeting people. It can happen. The last 3 guys I dated I met online. I agree...its kinda like a blind date the first time you meet...depending on how long you chat before meeting.What do you think about people who start their relationships online?
I SURE HOPE IT CAN, I MEAN WHY CAN'T IT? I MET MY BOYFRIEND ON THE INTERNET AND WE ARE MEETING IN PERSON FOR THE FIRST TIME TUESDAY. ITS NOT MUCH DIFFERENT THAN A BLIND DATE IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT.
Why is chatting online any different than chatting in person?
met my wife online 10 years ago.....2 kids later, we are A-OK
I met my boyfriend online, and we've been together 3 months now. He is definitely the one that I've been looking for and I love him with all my heart. Go for it and good luck!!!!!
well my gf i met her online thign r going great she is the one for me we being it will3 months in sept.14
I dated a guy online for about two months.
We broke up because it was too difficult to keep up.
But its fine to meet them online i think.gold eyeshadow
I think its great. People are getting tired of the same old crappy way of meeting people. It can happen. The last 3 guys I dated I met online. I agree...its kinda like a blind date the first time you meet...depending on how long you chat before meeting.What do you think about people who start their relationships online?
I SURE HOPE IT CAN, I MEAN WHY CAN'T IT? I MET MY BOYFRIEND ON THE INTERNET AND WE ARE MEETING IN PERSON FOR THE FIRST TIME TUESDAY. ITS NOT MUCH DIFFERENT THAN A BLIND DATE IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT.
Why is chatting online any different than chatting in person?
met my wife online 10 years ago.....2 kids later, we are A-OK
I met my boyfriend online, and we've been together 3 months now. He is definitely the one that I've been looking for and I love him with all my heart. Go for it and good luck!!!!!
well my gf i met her online thign r going great she is the one for me we being it will3 months in sept.14
I dated a guy online for about two months.
We broke up because it was too difficult to keep up.
But its fine to meet them online i think.
Can ghosts or sprits in your house hold effct relationships oe effect others around you?
Yes of course ghost/spirit in a household can effect relationships. And others around you. If you feel the ghost/spirit is a problem, ask it nicely to leave. help it cross into the light where loved ones are waiting.Can ghosts or sprits in your house hold effct relationships oe effect others around you?
You are in the ';science and mathematics'; section. There is no scientific indication that ghosts and spirits exist, and therefore they cannot be discussed here.
You might have better luck in the ';myths and legends'; section.Can ghosts or sprits in your house hold effct relationships oe effect others around you?
Sometimes my good friend...ghosts get us messed up with their own loved ones, or may know who we are, but most ghosts don't know their dead until you show them. They can have an influence on you and a love.
I think they do but it depends on wad kind of spirits. If it's restless ones than maybe it will effect the one's around you. Get a priest to lay them to rest so they wont bother you.
Peaceful ones usually dont harm people.
Don't disturb them and they wont disturb you.
no such things as ghosts and spirits...only in your head...
You are in the ';science and mathematics'; section. There is no scientific indication that ghosts and spirits exist, and therefore they cannot be discussed here.
You might have better luck in the ';myths and legends'; section.Can ghosts or sprits in your house hold effct relationships oe effect others around you?
Sometimes my good friend...ghosts get us messed up with their own loved ones, or may know who we are, but most ghosts don't know their dead until you show them. They can have an influence on you and a love.
I think they do but it depends on wad kind of spirits. If it's restless ones than maybe it will effect the one's around you. Get a priest to lay them to rest so they wont bother you.
Peaceful ones usually dont harm people.
Don't disturb them and they wont disturb you.
no such things as ghosts and spirits...only in your head...
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