Friday, July 30, 2010

A female friend suggested to me that relationships between people from different cultures are exciting ?

at first but ultimately they fail because of the differences arising from the different backgrounds. Do you agree?A female friend suggested to me that relationships between people from different cultures are exciting ?
married to a person from another culture( sometimes i swear another world! )


been married for 10 years. if your the woman most prob, you will have to deal with his expectations of raising his kids the way his mother did it....... which an be a problem being you may not like his mother (i dont! ha ha)


personally i dont feel i had issues with him while i lived in my country. (USA) but about four years ago we moved to his country. (middle east) it is nice but i feel him being in his country has made him different. for example. he spends alot of time with his friends outside the house, which is the norm here for men. but i find very rude and offensive. so this is where the culture difference comes into play. he going back to his Traditions, which you may not understand. it was exciting when i first moved here...........now most of it just gets on my dam nerves.


LOL


now does it fail........ it depends on the female i guess. how much is she willing to adjust to the different LifeStyle.??? because in my experience and others i know who r married to a man.........it is always the woman who does the changing........not the man.


if she can adjust then she will make it. if not then yes i agree it will fail.








just because one fails..........doesnt mean they all will. A female friend suggested to me that relationships between people from different cultures are exciting ?
No. Its not first because you have to adapt to their culture you don't even know if you will like that culture, if you are a girl you have to learn how to cook their food. They have different traditions. You will have problems at the beginning. I don't think is exciting
No, don't agree, I have been with a girl from a different background/culture for the past 4 years and find its the person she is that makes me want to stay with her, her culture I can adapt to.
yes, most of the time that is true. once you get over the excitement of the sex the cultural differences will separate you.
No.
yes and no.



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