Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Is it bad to get involved in your best friends relationships?

my best friend recently became girlfriend of some pervert that goes to our school. shes 15 in october, and i think because shes pretty innocent, she wanted to break out of her shell for a little bit. hes fat, has longer gross hair, and is completely perverted and tries to get anything he can possibly get from anyone. shes gorgeous and sweet and her family lives a veryyy up-scale life. should i meddle in her relationship, or let her get hurt?Is it bad to get involved in your best friends relationships?
Tell her what you think of this guy, and that you have a bad feeling about him. What she does from there is her choice, but maybe inputting your opinion will change her mind.Is it bad to get involved in your best friends relationships?
Sounds mean, but meddle. She shouldn't be wasting her time with a git, but then again if she really is into him, just make sure she doesn't have sex with him. Otherwise, dating is dating. At 15, going to the movies and out to dinner isn't a big deal.





It just shouldn't escalate into something more.

What education do I need to council girls in abusive relationships,I was in one & want to help others get out?

You will probably need at least a Bachelor's Degree in Psychology or Sociology and most likely a Masters Degree in either Psychology or Sociology. There is licensing involved as well as internship.





There are some jobs in the Gov't sector that can use a Bachelor's degree like in Children and Family Services, but if you want your own practice, you need a Master'sWhat education do I need to council girls in abusive relationships,I was in one %26amp; want to help others get out?
Well, it depends on what counciling you want to do. I guess there are requirements for being a councilor career-wise, but there are ways to council people simply by being there for them. A clear mind and an understanding view of things are excellent, wether its for a job or simply because you want to help others.





Seeing as your interested in helping other people, you have taken a great and bold step in changing today's society. Good Going!What education do I need to council girls in abusive relationships,I was in one %26amp; want to help others get out?
If you have had personal experience, all you need is a desire to help other people.





If you want it to be your profession, you should get at least a bachelor's degree in Psychology (usually a 4-year-degree). Preferably Master's though (AT LEAST one year more after your bachelor's).

Epicureanism and Platonic relationships led to homosexuality?

Did it? How was it historically during those times of Plato?Epicureanism and Platonic relationships led to homosexuality?
haha, tell that to the people with messed up x and y chromosomes that feel like they are 40% male and 60% female. If you're saying that homosexuality is nurture and not nature, you're going to have a long harder time proving it without fallacious statements.Epicureanism and Platonic relationships led to homosexuality?
It was and is not Platonic. however, it would be Epicurean. Moreover, It was very Greek culture to be homosexual. Men would have multiple relationships with both their wives, other men and younger boys--these were very common.
Is it? Funny, I thought platonic relationship is non-sexual and not so romantic, and I recommended as a virtue to many pupils as against tectonic which may lead to romance and sex. This might be an old English interpretation! Hu?
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  • Is it okay to hang out alone with a friend of the opposite sex when both friends are in relationships?

    and I sorta didn't tell my boyfriend that my friend were gonna hang out for the fact that I didn't want him to tell my best guyfriend...


    is that bad?Is it okay to hang out alone with a friend of the opposite sex when both friends are in relationships?
    not at all, as long as you're just friends, it's fine. I see no harm in it %26lt;333Is it okay to hang out alone with a friend of the opposite sex when both friends are in relationships?
    It's perfectly fine to have friends of the opposite sex (and hang out with them) - it isn't fine to be dodgy or dishonest.
    yes thats bad..it is never ok to lie. you should introduce them, and then your bf should have no problem with you guys hanging out...UNLESS they personally know each other and dont like each other, or if he has valid reason like the guy is alwyas hitting on you or touching you innappropriately. and you should be fine with him hanging out with his female friends too.
    If you kept it a secret, there must be a reason.....guilt?


    There shouldn't be anything wrong with friends hanging out regardless of sex.....but if you are hiding something, you are acting quite guilty..........so tell the truth.
    If one is comfortable in their relationship, one should be able to associate with members of the opposite sex.


    However:


    If hanging out results in an attraction on both sides then,


    new and different relationships may develop!


    Assuming no one is married, I would say, go ahead and ';hang out';


    If some of you , hanging out, are married, it might be best to invite your spouse along!


    Good Luck


    Happy Hanging!
    As long as you two didn't do anything to feel guilty about, I wouldn't worry about it. You may want to look at the reasons you didn't want your boyfriend to know tho. Maybe you have hidden feelings for this person? Just watch out what kinds of cues you give him when you are alone.





    It is never ok to flat out lie about something tho in a relationship. You have to have trust!
    well dependz ...if ur bf and his gf is ok with it then yeah y not but if u have to hide something it meanz it is wrong y not going out in pairs?
    Your in big trouble.
    if nothing happend, then i dont see the problem in two friends hanging out. just because you are in relationships doesnt mean you arent allowed to continue a friendship
    You shouldn't feel the need to hide anything from your boyfriend.





    I don't see anything wrong with hanging out with a guy who's just a friend...but some people are more jealous than others.





    It's fine...if you don't lie about it.
    It sounds like you are quite possibly not ready for a mature relationship. At the very least, you should have told him. The only way it would be ok is to insist your boyfriend be able to come along.
    sure pne of my best friends is a guy we hang at his place and and were both in relationships I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. Also you shouldn't be scared to tell your bf that you are hanging with your best guy friend somtimes a little jelousy can make the relationsip better anyway! Im not sayin don't tell him if he has issues with it than he is being to controling you deserve to have a life ouside of your relationship as well
    well, everytime I have a female friend they always think I'm going out with her. Lame,








    Sure it fine tho :)
    if you didn't tell your boyfriend 'cause he didn't kno about your guyfriend...and your guyfriend doesn't kno you have a boyfriend...then that's uncool.





    *cheers*
    There's no such thing as a platonic relationship. I would never ever hang out alone with another man, despite how much I enjoyed his company. If we are friends, my husband comes too.
    Hanging out in and of itself is innocent. If you two are flirting, cuddling or making out then it's bad. Go ahead and tell your bf, your hiding it is making it much worse than it is.
    It's perfectly acceptable to hang out with someone of the opposite sex while both are in relationships.


    It is not appropriate to lie about it to your significant other.
    yes as long as it's hanging out and not sex and kissing.
    Well, the fact you didn't tell your boyfriend would make it appear that you have something to hide even if that isn't the case...
    Lets Just put it this way....If you feel that you need to keep it a secret then you probably shouldn't be doing it.
    its fine as long as you two dont do anything~


    just because you have a bf doesn't mean you cant hangout with old friends~

    What would you do about differences in money beliefs in relationships?

    When two people have a relationship together, how much should they be willing to put aside or work through their individual philosophical differences concerning how much they value money in terms of the security brings them day to day and in longer term life planning? Please, share some insight. Can these differences make a relationship better to walk away from? And, what are best techniques for people in a relationship to see things, of this nature, the same come together?What would you do about differences in money beliefs in relationships?
    Different attitudes towards money can destroy your relationship. Spenders will spend, and you will always be broke, and you will grow to hate them while having no financial security. Savers shouldn't be stuck with spenders.





    Find someone who thinks the way you do. This is critical.What would you do about differences in money beliefs in relationships?
    If you plan to be in a serious relationship with a person with the intention of maybe getting married or combining finances, you should be on the same page when it comes to money. If one of you likes to save every penny and the other spends their whole check every month, you'll probably have a lot of arguments concerning your finances if they were joined together.





    My fiance and I are both savers and I think this helps us a lot when it comes to everyday decisions and long term goals. For example, we decide to eat out no more than once a week and cook the other meals to conserve. We also try to build a nice safety net by living modestly in case one of us ever became unemployed or just to one day use towards a house, etc.





    You should have an honest conversation with your partner and discuss the way you feel towards money and ask him/her their thoughts and feelings towards it. You should be able to come up with some sort of compromise and meet in a middle ground.

    How did chat room conversations affect the male and female relationships in the Moroccan society?

    it made it more ';easy'; for ppl in Morocco to break the ice and begin to talk to each other.... so it made it a little more easier for males and females to talk.....

    How can a chromotogram be used to determine the evolutionary relationships between plants, algae and bacteria?

    PLEASE ANSWERHow can a chromotogram be used to determine the evolutionary relationships between plants, algae and bacteria?
    electrophoresis.





    This is a form of gelatin based chromatography which relies on an electric field to separate fragments of DNA, based on the size of the fragment.





    DNA is extracted from an organism and then ';amplified'; by using special enzymes to manufacture billions of copies of the DNA. Next a special enzyme is introduced which splits all the DNA according to a particular base pair. This cleaves the DNA into fragments based on where certain pairs exist along the chain. The result is a mixture of fragment sizes whose sizes are unique to the DNA originally extracted. It is stained, placed in a small depression in a gelatin plate and an electric current applied. The current will then carry the fragments through the gelatine according to the size of the particles. The result is a series of bands, precisely positioned for a particular sample. If an unknown sample is analyzed in this manner, the DNA will be an exact match if the resulting pattern matches the original. This is because the DNA sequence will have been exactly the same, and hence the fragmentation pattern will also be identical. Because DNA is a hereditary material, kinship can be deduced by how closely the gelatine band pattern matches between two samples. The closer the match, the closer the two doners are related to one another. For nearly all multicellular organisms on earth, the match is at least 50% identical. This shows the close relationship between the genes of animals and plants.How can a chromotogram be used to determine the evolutionary relationships between plants, algae and bacteria?
    they are not similar and have only this relations that they are living ..............





    living organizmes on lanet earth :





    bacteria and other :





    others = animals plants protosomething , mushrooms and something ..........

    What do you do when you are in very bad relationships with your roommate?

    Something went wrong and i can really feel the hate between me and him. I can see the anger in his eyes and I feel very angry when I talk to him.What do you do when you are in very bad relationships with your roommate?
    If this is serious, best to move out or have them move out.





    I have had many flatmates over the years and sometimes there can be tension but unfortunately this doesn't disappear unless you talk it out and both really get over it.What do you do when you are in very bad relationships with your roommate?
    After rooming with 2 good friends at separate times for 2 years, I can say that it's tough ground. Though I'm still friends with both of them, it would have been better to room with someone I didn't know. It's almost like living with your bf/gf and the annoying crap that happens then. When you have a roomie that is JUST a roomie, there are no expectations as far as friendship goes and the only things you have to worry about are chores, rent...logistic things.





    Just FYI for the future.
    if you think its worth fixing.. try and lighten the mood. and ask if he wants to do something with u..


    or else i strongly suggest u try and get a new roommate.


    if thats impossible just keep your chin up.. and try to relieve the drama.. by acting as if nothing is wrong

    Are long disance relationships as hard as they sound?

    My boyfriend has recently been relocated 120 miles from home. We have only been together since January but we are getting on really well so far. I would hate to go weeks without seeing him and so do you think i should end it now before it gets too complicated?Are long disance relationships as hard as they sound?
    Mine just ended a week ago after 1 year and 5 months. 8 months of which were spent apart.





    If you are going to make it work it will take a lot of work and commitment from both of you. It's not just going to happen. It's really hard. If you really love each other though it can workAre long disance relationships as hard as they sound?
    I've spent the better part of 3 1/2 years in a long distance relationship. Committment, dedication, and all the essentials for any relationship to succeed have to come from both partners. Its a lot of hard work, but if you love each other, you can make it work.
    Just a city away is pretty challenging. 120 miles away is more challenging. But if I were you, I would just make it work. You can text, IM, call, facebook, myspace, email. And you can always try to see each other at least once every month
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  • Do you consider relationships a science?

    I'm writing a paper for my college english class.. and I need a little help on where to find information supporting this question.. thanks!Do you consider relationships a science?
    I don't quite know how to answer a question THAT broad, but I would consider to include in your paper the whole online dating. You put in data about yourself, and it SCIENTIFICALLY pairs you with people that would cator to your needs and could accept your flaws. It is just another angle that is worth considering.Do you consider relationships a science?
    Get this book:





    Recovering Love by J. Richard Cookerly





    This is a good how-to book on making and strengthening love relationships. (Ignore the subtitle) It's based on good solid scientific research.
    Relationships are not a science. Relationships can be studied by science. But science has a very hard time even describing human relationships.


    Unlike chemistry which uses billions of atoms to study reactions, studies of human relationships are done on so few a number of people that the statistical numbers are flawed. (Too small of a sample to form a true generalization).


    Places like eHarmony.com use a testing procedure to check interests and compatibility which leads to better communication and therefore a higher success rate than a random meeting.


    I think that crythsania has the right idea. The site below should lead to some good references:
    the personality profile on Eharmony is free, and you don't have to persue matches right away or anything.


    In the process of taking the test, science as relates to courtship is discussed, many coorelations and whatnot.


    There are new online dating sites that are calling this method ';cold and utiliterian'; as if you're asking a computer for a good date. Fact is relationships have been studied for many years and there is some underlying truth that some people are better suited for others than some, of course like anything there are exceptions to the rule...


    Still this method of narrowing the search from just any man (assuming you're a woman) it just weeds things down to men who'd compliment your attributes and also balances your personality with theirs.





    I have found working with these sites has made the online dating scene more productive.
    More like an excercise in communication.
    Relationships are a social science. They deal with introvert, extrovert, psychological matters and hormones that are released during physical, mental, and emotional relationships.

    Is there a relationships with the use of excedrin with diet and exercise?

    I would like to start an exercise and diet program but I do not want to be striking the air....I do know that personal trainers know tricks as to how to speed up weight lost, I would just like to know the a fast way to lose weight....if anyone out there knows please share. I am not what most people consider fat but I have gained unwant pounds and I would love to get back to a size 6 or 8 in a hurry...and this will entail the lost of 20 lbs....please helpIs there a relationships with the use of excedrin with diet and exercise?
    A headache pill isn't going to help you loose weight, that's just silly. My only guess is that because Excedrin has caffeine (I think) some idiot must think it speeds up your metabolism, which is silly. Work out and eat right, end of story.Is there a relationships with the use of excedrin with diet and exercise?
    Excedrin is a drug in the newly classified group know as ';NSAID'; drugs, or, Non steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs.


    These have been found by the FDA to increase blood pressure and risk of heart attack and stroke when taken regularly. It contains acetaminophen, acetylsalicylic acid, and caffeine, which can also interfere with a predictable workout, as caffeine is a CNS Stimulant, or, Central Nervous System Stimulant. Neither of theses drugs will help you loose weight, but, in fact, they can greatly increase your risk of heart disease or stroke.


    I would talk to your doctor before beginning any exercise regimen, and especially if you have any history of heart disease or stroke.

    What's your zodiac sign and are you cheap in relationships or not ?

    Dealing with a paticular sign for 3 yrs and have rained in majority of the money $$$$$$ and my X was a very needy person.........What's your zodiac sign and are you cheap in relationships or not ?
    My zodiac sign is Taurus, and at times I could be cheap. But when it comes to someone I love I will spend alot of money on them especially if they are sweet, and good hearted.What's your zodiac sign and are you cheap in relationships or not ?
    Libra here. Contrary to what my sign might imply, I'm cheap to keep. I find it extremely romantic to get treated to a night out, if they can afford it. I want affection, it's the little thoughtful things that count, not the gifts.





    In a relationship, I'm not cheap. If I have money, I love to spend it on others. People have tried to take advantage of me before as I come across as a bit gullable, so I've learned to walk the middle road with this. I love to be giving, but don't take my money for granted or ignore my need for financial security or I'll lay down the law and fight for what's right and fair. ;) There needs to be a balance in everything, you know? IMHO, don't give away all your money so they'll love you, but don't keep it all to yourself in fear.





    Perhaps just going by sun sign is a bit too general..? I find my Sadge ascendant makes it really easy for me to want to overspend in an enthusiastic gesture of showing someone that I care about them muchly.
    Well, Im a Scorpio and tend to be rather frugal in most cases in relationships. I go for what the other person has to offer. I dated a Scorpio and he was cheap!! For Valentines day he gave me a small diamond shaped chocolate that cost about $2.99 and a stuffed animal with the price tag still on it that said $4.99. I gave him $70 dollar Versace cologne, a huge box of chocolates and some cute boxers!!! I was sooooo dissappointed! Yeah its the thought that counts but this dude put no thought into V-day!! Im dating a Leo now and he buys me 1 carat diamond jewelry necklaces and earrings on a whim. I also buy him good stuff cuz he is generous. I go buy how long ive known the person and if they are generous, so will I be :)
    Im a Sagitarius and my girl is a Leo. Im not the type to care about the signs and such but she even reads books on the subject. Anyway...she is very, very lazy and demanding, she doesnt work and sleeps in late, I cook (by choice, i like to cook), i clean, i work, i wake up early on a daily basis, and give her money all the time just to get her outta the house, i pay all the bills, and feed the baby, but i love her so what i do compared to what she does is irrelevant because i know she loves me just as much if not more.
    Well I'm an aries -I don't like to say I'm cheap -however my family's been having LOTS of money problems lately so I haven't really been able to afford a lot of stuff when I'm hanging out with people. I feel HORRIBLE about it but usually other people end up paying, however the one time I went on sort of a real date, I did pay. -He's a gemini and I don't think he had any money on him, however it was just frozen custard, so it was nothing. haha :)
    I'm a Scorp (with Cap moon), and I'm not cheap. I hate the thought of giving crappy gifts. What an image-killer (maybe that's the Libra rising in me coming out lol). Out of my exes, one was a Scorpio (with either Sag or Cap moon) and he was really cheap (which I called him out on). And one was a Capricorn (with Scorp moon) who was ridiculously generous. He bought me lovely gifts all the time :) and also spent lavishly on his family. Loved it. My dad is Leo with Taurus moon and he's cheap and my bro is Gemini with Taurus moon and he used to be realllly cheap, but he's gotten better lately. My best friend is Cancer sun (with Taurus moon) and is hella cheap! My mom is Virgo sun with Scorp moon and is really giving. My sis is Libra sun with Virgo moon and is also very giving.





    Well, hope that helps!
    I'm a cancer... and im never cheap in relationships, I'd give you the world on a silver platter... that is after you have proven to me that you're really worth being with...





    To me Gifts aren't important.. sure it's nice if you give me one... But your financial status isn't important.. i'd love you anyway.. just as long as your at least trying to do something for yourself.





    When it comes to astrology you need more then just your sun sign...





    in affairs like this your Venus/mars signs would help to understand how a person would work in matters of the heart, and how one deals with relationships...
    I'm a Pisces and I'm very cheap when it comes to buying myself something (love the dollar store, hehe). But when it comes to my boyfriend, I'm not cheap at all-just the opposite. I love buying him stuff, I like to get him something when he least expects it. I think I spoil him too much though....
    I am not cheap at all. I have a Leo Moon if that means anything to ya---hahaha!!





    Nah, not cheap. Don't like cheap either.





    X-boyfriends---cheapest ones were:


    1. Taurus w. a Capricorn moon (bought things for me but was always mindful of the cost and would discuss the price w. me--- was uber cheap w. others too. YUK!! Worse yet, he buys the most lavish things for himself. Doulble YUK!!


    2. Cancer w. a Gemini Moon---- I definitely spent more money than him ten thousand times over, but I don't think he was cheap. Lazy and unmotivated yes, but not cheap w. me. Not generous w. others though. More for me and tons more on himself.


    3. Cancer w. a Scorpio Moon-- Cheap!! Could be generous but it was always calculated. Again, not generous with other, just me, and that is not nice imo.


    4. Leo (don't know his moon sign) Ridiculously generous!!!! Gave and gave, bought, and treated everyone. A sweetie and a living doll (but a player--hahaha).


    5. Gemini (don't know his moon sign) go with the flow. He was either average generous or uber generous. Never cheap.


    6. Capricorn w. a Libra moon---mostly cheap. did things for his own benefit. Bleck!!


    7. Aquarius (don't know moon sign) completely generous. Generous w. me and everyone. A sweetie pie but again, another player---hahah





    LOL!!! I appreciate an in between person. I can be too generous, so I need someone to keep things balanced and not overdone so we don't go broke on my account :P





    I don't require the guy to spend money on me though. Just don't want him not to be willing to. Being sincerely generous w. all people, not just me, is a quality that I really really like.
    All nonsense. People create relationships, the ';zodiac sign'; has nothing to do with it. The person is needy and cheap because that is what they are, not because they're some sign.
    I'm a Cancer who is very giving in every relationship that I have ever had. Be it a friend or a man, I give lots of time, attention, emotional energy and things like these. I also help my friends out financially if the need ever arises. I'll lend them no more than $100 dollars or buy them $20 worth of gas if they ever need it.
    Taurus. And I must be (although I highly suspect being Taurean has nought to do with it) as I have avoided getting into relationships for quite some time - Must admit good for the soul if not the purse. I spoil my son rotten though so there's a quandary for you.
    Cusp


    Gemini/Taurus





    and no definally not cheap to her, but when it comes to spending on myself yes.





    P.S this is no different then people dating those with simalar personally types such as ESFJ, ISFJ,INFJ,ENFJ, etc
    am a Sagittarius and i don't think am cheap, and if i am i hadn't noticed lol. my boyfriend is a Gemini and he gives me everything i ask for;.
    Im a leo. and im really not that cheap...i mean i buy my bf random stuff for no reason sometimes...but i dont think that spending money has anything to do with a relationship.
    I'm a Scorpio and I am not cheap with the people I love and don't mind at all spending money on them, in fact I get a lot of joy out of being able to share things with those I love.
    im pisces and im not cheap, i actually give more time and money than i spend on myself (charity and other volunteer work)





    [and i agree with the guy above me]
    im a scorpio, have been burned in the past %26amp; not ready to do the whole relationship thing again just yet so im happily single %26amp; no im not cheap I believe relationships are an equal partnership in ALL areas
    Yes, I am cheap in relationships. I'm a Capricorn.
    I am a saggi and I am always cheap only because I am trying to watch out my for my budget over spending is a big problem for me
    Im not cheap!!





    Aquarius..
    Im capricorn and when I can afford it I love to buy things for my man,his birthday was last month,I was happy I had plenty of money to spend on him.
    virgos don't like to spend their money on their partners but love it when others spend money on them.
    cheap nonsense..but im not going to spend ever thing on you..still compared to people,money don't mean crap
    I'm very confused.
    Pisces.


    I Have Never Been Cheap.
    I am never cheap.

    What are the relationships between chromosome structure and gene function?

    answers please thankyouWhat are the relationships between chromosome structure and gene function?
    Chromosome structure will determine the expression of certain genes. During protein synthesis, the chromosomes have to pack an enormous amount of information. Those genes that are packed into the densest part of the chromosome will never be expressed while those that are in the less dense areas will be expressed. The cell has the ability to either make a region more or less dense depending on the stage in the cell cycle/development.What are the relationships between chromosome structure and gene function?
    uhm....i forget some of the part but anyone can correct me if i'm wrong....





    Gene function didn't directly affected by chromosome structure since the one that determine the gene function is the nucleic acid sequence on DNA.





    Chromosome structure will determine whether an organism has a genetic disease or not. Since human didn't have a chromosome in telosentris form, if you find one/more in a human cell, you can tell that this human has a genetic disease.





    Ah i just remember something. If a structure of chromosome broken...it will affect the nucleic acid sequence in the DNA and it will cause Trancription and Translation error that will lead to many kind of genetic disease. That will cause a defect in gene function or the gene will not expressed.

    Where can I find short stories online about mother/daughter relationships?

    SOURCES CANNOT END IN ';.COM'; OR ';.NET'; (b/c its a documented essay, and my english teacher is a jerk)





    .org, .edu, ect, are all fine.Where can I find short stories online about mother/daughter relationships?
    Hope this helps!

    LGBT: What is the best way to deal with online relationships?

    LGBT, I've fallen so hard again.





    Good thing he lives really close.LGBT: What is the best way to deal with online relationships?
    First off - on line relationships can be, and have been known to be - dangerous... Especially so if there is / are distance (s) involved, and a lot of ';kisses and promises of what they'll do for each other..


    How many kids have been lead astray and into trouble from all these people who suffer from Baby Bird Syndrome.


    If the parties ';involved'; (???) are close to each other distance wise, a couple of meetings on a neutral territory should be the ';protocol'; and then again, do not believe everything you are told...


    Ask questions... make mental notes of the other person's replies, and jot them down as reference when you are alone..


    During a second meeting - again - in the same atmosphere / location, as the somewhat similar questions once again, and if their replies ';match up'; there could be some truth to the person... Do so with ';I ';..forgot what you said about ';XYX';...


    And never get into a confined area with strangers you've met on line...


    And if you're imbibing, always keep an eye on your drink (s).. Far too many are far too trusting of other people..


    And ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.. I hope you know what I mean by that..


    Gp in peace and caution....!!!!


    Rachelle In High HeelsLGBT: What is the best way to deal with online relationships?
    She said ';You're scary';





    There goes my online relationship. Hahahahaha! I got a serious heart break for that one, she happened to be my second love.





    So, who's he? Anyone we know on Yahoo?





    If this online realtionship can't get into real life, it is hopeless. It might warm up your life, but it will eventually end.
    Honesty, Trust and Loyalness are the three biggest things to inquire into an online relationship. If it doesn't have any of the three, that relationship doesn't sound steady or workable.





    You'll climb yourself out of the hole, I'm sure. =)
    if you've never actually met him in person, then (i'm sorry but it's my unchangeable opinion) i cant (only) cyber relationships. if you have and it's just long dist. then, talk on the phone a lot. try to get together whenever you both can. it doesnt have to be hard
    If he lives close good then maybe its ok just be careful 8) easy to fake an Identity online





    But for future if its a big distance leave it most likely will fail 70% of the time
    Online friendships are great. Anything else can ruin your life. If you have a crush, enjoy it, but try to keep it separate from real life.
    What is LGBT
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  • Are boy-girl relationships that start during the day usually long-term and short-term if start at night?

    I don't think so - I think how fast things progress is a better indicator. It seems like if things go very fast right away, the relationship burns out pretty quickly (most of the time)





    But, people are all different - that's why they are so interesting! I've know folks whose relationships that started VERY fast and lasted (but it still seems like an exception to the rule.)Are boy-girl relationships that start during the day usually long-term and short-term if start at night?
    What a silly question, it makes no difference when they start .Are boy-girl relationships that start during the day usually long-term and short-term if start at night?
    uhhmmm nooo! wtf are you on?!

    How are your relationships with your contacts and fans?

    Serious


    Fun


    Distant


    Close


    Amorous


    Trying sometimes


    So - so





    Speaking of which - why does Paul N not allow people who wish to become fans? Some folks do not even have their emails open. Rats.......How are your relationships with your contacts and fans?
    Well, when I had fans and contacts it was pretty much fun and mutual respect. I recently removed all my fans and contacts since I wasnt sure if one of them was a troll pretending to be my friend. Overall, I really enjoyed their company. I do miss them though...:(





    I dont want to get suspended again. This kitty is on his 4th life.





    Im so lucky to have found this room. Everyone is very respectful.I hope I get to know many of you in the near future. The other day I asked for help in regards to my daughter missing her grandmother (she recently passed away) and many of you responded intelligently and respectful. My hats off to everyone in here..except for a certain unwanted guest named TaraJ.





    Excellent question. You made my day!





    *kitty sends hugs to all of you*How are your relationships with your contacts and fans?
    With the best of my contacts, I'd have to say a combination of all those you've listed except for distant / close. In that regard, probably slightly more distant than close. I mean, after all, how close can you actually get to someone you've never met in person or even talked to on the phone? And in the case of Paul N, only he knows the answer to that one. He's probably a very private person who only does this for fun and doesn't wanna reveal too much about himself. Don't forget, he's a Texan and they do things differently down there. However, all this is nothing more than pure speculation on my part and your guess is as good as mine.
    I keep my contacts between 20/25 so I can get to know the best online people on this site. I am blessed with some contacts, that I feel our paths crossed, %26amp; Devinne guidance had something to do with it. If not for this site I would have never met such nice, kind, %26amp; warm personalities. I hope we always stay in touch. If my contacts read this answer they will know if they are one of the ones that I am most grateful to know %26amp; share email with.--- I love helping others so my relationships are on the serious side with a spiritual touch.


    If I can help anyone in their walk in life, I'm here for you.
    My contacts are the only ones that can see my profile due to people following me around on Q%26amp;A. There are many who like to play games. But I do have an open e-mail.





    I do get emails here and there, and I'm always quick to return the message. Not really close to anyone on here. Never had the opportunity.
    I have a lot of friends, had them for years, some I phone, and always end up having a good laugh, and just the same when they phone me.





    I have always liked people who have a really good sense of humour.


    I was brought up in a big family, and there was always laughter about somewhere.
    I have made two really good friends on here, and we email regularly...One is 1300 miles away, the other nearly 2000....But if we hear something really funny, we share it, and just have fun conversations. We have never met, and it may never happen, but there are some really good people on here.
    I guess you are asking about contacts and fans on Yahoo Answers? Then my answer is that I have no relationships. Zero. None. Zilch. Used to have a few but had to make everything private except email to get rid of some pests that followed me around YA.
    Since my first account got deleted, I am much more guarded about who I have for contacts and fans. I am Sometimes Trying to have some Serious Amorous Fun. You were carried over from my previous account, so call it trusted but rusted.
    the relationships i've made thru my computer have been informative, interesting, an exchange of good ideas, give and take research, enjoyable chit chat, mutual respect, some business contacts, and long term (up to 8 years) friendships..
    I don't have contacts or fans.....and I don't accept e-mails.





    I come here for some innocent entertainment without any strings.





    I have family and friends in my real life and that's enough for me.
    Many of my contacts are also my friends, we've known each other for years. Old friends, new friends, old contacts that I barely know, new contacts, I try to be nice to all :)





    Happy Friday!! :)





    Hugs!!
    I think most are distant %26amp; a few are fun I have none that are close but I'm not a hard person to get along with so all are welcome although I do appear to have someone following my Q %26amp; A's that are not nice.
    Two of my contacts I have become very good friends with and have visited them at their homes. Several more I chat with and one I have had webcam beer parties with.
    All of the above %26amp; my e-mail is open. PN is not the only one.
    I have some really good friends here. I feel that one of them is upset with me right now though, and that's bumming me out.
    I came into this in Jan. I had a great friend of many years who was on here for many years so she made it easy for me %26amp; I have met many more they are all great!
    I don't collect fans because I have friends in real life and don't use this site as a chat room, unlike some others.
    As a new user, I've been warned about giving too much information on the internet so I have to say Distant
    Don't have contacts or fans in yahoo.





    I do have life friends that keep my email box filled.
    Distant, but that is how I am
    nothing
    Just peachy, I hope! :)
    None
    You forgot ';eh';. lol


    My email is open, but only 1 or 2 ever email me. :o(
    we are supposed to interact with them? MMmmm...novel concept
    I have an absolute angel on my list.
    i met one elderly lady on pc years ago and we have stayed friends,


    but thats it.
    I don't have any.
    If your talking about Y! Answers, I don't have any. Never thought about it.

    Do you talk to your parents about your romantic interests/relationships?

    This is mostly aimed at folks who have come out, but whatever.Do you talk to your parents about your romantic interests/relationships?
    My mother all the time


    She gives the best advice and always knows what to sayDo you talk to your parents about your romantic interests/relationships?
    as long as i would love too. nope. i'm out and proud but they're not really interested about what's going on in my romantic or love life. and honestly it hurts, because sometimes i want to know what they think about my boyfriend, if they think he's good for me, you know just like they do for my brothers and sisters. but they don't care, and it's pretty sad.
    Nope. In fact, I tend not to have a lot of people I can openly talk to about my romantic attractions . . . I'm kind of awkward that way. Even my best friend and I have difficulty sharing our crushes and burgeoning relationships. And for parents? Yeah, that's not happening.
    yes, just not the sex part that'd be awkward gay or straight. Whats the difference in talking about a straight relationship and a gay relationship with your parents as long as you don't talk about what you do behind closed doors?
    To an extent, yes. There have been times where I've had to tell her really personal things, including talking about my sex life, but I try to keep it pretty limited. Getting extremely personal with parents is usually awkward.
    i personally think that parents and there children should have a open relationship about these things. But i don't it's very and and awkward for me to talk to them about those kinds of problems.
    I hardly talk to my parents about anything, they are too busy fighting and moaning to take any notice off me.
    Yea with my mom! My dad doesn't care and we always argue so I'm not very open with him.. tho both of them know I'm into girls!! =]
    Nah, my parents aren't into that stuff. They like to talk about school though! :)
    Yep, all the time.
    I am out, but my relationship is Sh!*, sorry for the bad language Emmasj! :)
    Nooo way.


    mother is catholic ! haha
    Nope. To me that's awkward.
    nope....i dont talk to them about anything like that
    no way

    What are the relationships between sports and the media?

    Sports is a very important part of most peoples lives, and the media covers it to sell newspapers, and to attract listeners to either listen or watch it on television.


    It mostly comes down as does most things to who can make a buck from it, and how much.

    How can a chromatogram be used to determne the evolutionary relationships between plants,algae,and bacteria?

    This is very important. It's for my biology lab.How can a chromatogram be used to determne the evolutionary relationships between plants,algae,and bacteria?
    Algae and higher plants are called eukaryotic. They tend to have two different types of genetic material, one located in the nucleus and a different type located in the cell鈥檚 mitochondrion. Bacteria, on the other hand, are called prokaryotic. They only contain one type of genetic material. Some bacteria鈥檚 genetic material resembles that found in the nucleus of eukaryotic cells. Some bacteria DNA or RNA more closely resembles that of mitochondrion.


    Proper cleavage of the genetic material, followed by TLC or possibly paper chromatography, could show the similarities or differences. This could be used to infer (not prove) any evolutionary relationships.How can a chromatogram be used to determne the evolutionary relationships between plants,algae,and bacteria?
    Hey the following are just my thoughts-


    Chromatogram is used to separate chemically different compounds


    If similar compounds are found in a solution made my crushing parts of plants etc, then thy are considered to be linked w/ each other somewhere.


    eg., If xanthophyll is found thru chromatography in two diff plants , then thy are said to be linked somewhere as they use the exact same chemical as their photosynthetic pigment





    Hope this helps you :-))

    What are some good movies that deal with father daughter relationships?

    Taken


    Tyler Perry's Daddy's Little Girls


    College Road Trip


    Dr. Doolittle (1 %26amp; 2)What are some good movies that deal with father daughter relationships?
    'Commando';.Arnold went thru hell to get his little girl back.the beginning of the movie showed what a close relationship the two have.What are some good movies that deal with father daughter relationships?
    Yea, I have to agree with saying Taken. It shows the lengths a father went through to make sure his daughter came home alive.
    Taken has to be the best movie with a father daughter relationship oh and Definatly Maybe
    Definitely Maybe


    Father of the Bride
    Flicka
    Corrina Corrina kind of dealt with it.
    Father of the Bride I and 2
    Taken


    Hide And Seek
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  • How long have crocodiles been around for, and what symbiotic relationships do they have, if any?

    The type of crocodile doesn't matter. Please don't talk about caimens or any other type of crocodilia =] ThanksHow long have crocodiles been around for, and what symbiotic relationships do they have, if any?
    crocodiles have lived since the dinosaur age (if you belive in that stuff) and crocodiles do have a symbiotic relationship with a species of bird which will pick any scraps off the tongue. so the bird will get food and the croc gets good dental hygiene.

    What To Do When You Have Bad Luck With Your Relationships?

    Okay It Seems Like All The Guys That I Really Like And Care For All Do Me Wrong. I Always Wanted That Relationship That Last 4 or 5 Years But I Always Have The Worst Luck. Don't Get Me Wrong I Like Guys and I Really Want A Boyfriend But How Can I Do That If I'm Scared That The Next Guy Is Going To Do Me Wrong Like All The Others?What To Do When You Have Bad Luck With Your Relationships?
    Take a break and be single for awhile...


    Do not worry about the next guy who comes along and you might be surprised!!!

    Why Are open relationships ok in gay society?

    I am new to gay scene.I was taken aback when the person i am going out with said that in gay society its acceptable to have sex with person outside the relationship.





    Afterwards i met many couples like this.I am shocked.








    I did not like this as i want to have someone who is only with me.





    Please tell me if this is true and where can i find my type of relationships?Why Are open relationships ok in gay society?
    If you were my boyfriend that would be it - just me an you!Why Are open relationships ok in gay society?
    You were talking to whores. Open relationships are not okay to all homo people (neither the converse too all heteros).


    You could say it's more acceptable because if you look at it logistically, dating enough homosexual people to compare with the amount of dating that goes on between heteros is really hard, if for nother else, because the homo population is so much smaller.





    Sadly, as to not just sleep around and be just as happy you have to find that right person... just like any other people homo or hetero.
    ok, we've heard from the monogamy only crowd, now from someone who has had open relationships.





    There are many reasons for this, from immaturity to vastly different sex drives between partners. I've also seen otherwise perfect couples outside of the bedroom that did not match in it. It becomes a bit difficult when you fall in love before having sex, then find out you're both tops.


    For me, I fell madly in love with someone who I couldn't keep up with in the bedroom. We are otherwise the perfect couple, complimenting each other in so many other ways. I'd rather let him do so with me knowing instead of finding out from someone else. I can handle him doing this more than I could handle him going behind my back.


    Is it perfect? No. Is it right for anyone else? Maybe, maybe not. Is it right for me? For now, it is. As we grow in our relationship I might put it to an end.


    You can find a monogamous relationship where ever you are, as long as you know that is what you are looking for. It's not a society or cultural thing, it's personal choice.





    All I can say is find your own happiness and hold it close. If it doesn't make you happy, let it go.
    Just from my experience, but I've found that a lot of gays/bisexuals/lesbians don't want to be held back in that way. And in fact, lots of straight people feel that way as well, but they don't talk about it like we tend to in the queer community. By having open relationships, there's a bigger chance that the partners will be happier and a much smaller chance that one or both of the partners will ';cheat.'; That's a big problem in a lot of straight relationships that open relationships, no matter what the genders of the partners, don't have.
    It is NOT the sexual orientation of a person that determines whether one is in a monogamous relationship or an 'open' relationship...it is the 'individual' person themselves. You may have erred in not asking your 'friend' prior to establishing the relationship whether they intended to be faithful to you or if they were going to 'play the field'... Personally, I couldn't agree with you more...I am TOTALLY for a committed, monogamous relationship...and, that is what I am in...
    This is why many heterosexuals don't condone this lifestyle. I know heteros cheat too, but they know they are expected NOT to cheat, yet in the homo lifestlye it's expected that you do cheat. I think that is gross. It also lends credence to the HIV epidemic in the gay community. I think if gays want to be married and looked at as members of society, they need to start acting like members of society and not rabid a$$ rabbits
    Open relationships are accepted in both gay and straight society by select people. I have never personally known a gay or straight couple that had an open relationship. And I would never accept one for myself or my partner, but I feel that any consenting adult that wants that arrangement should feel free to have it.











    L
    I am bi sexual and i am strictly monogamous too.... I know several same sex couples who don't have an open relationship and i know straight couples who do have an open relationship...





    I think perhaps it's just spoken about a little more in the gay community.
    Not in my gay scene. I'm way too possessive to share my bf and he knows it. It's all up to the individual at the end of the day, I know plenty of straight couples who have open relationships and other gay couples like myself - though not to the same xtreme so I'm told.
    you can find it rite here buddy!!! lmao!


    Seriously not all gay relationship are like that. Well not the ones that i have been in anyway i think a relationship is sacred and if ur in a so called ';open relationship'; your not his bf ur his F**K buddy.
    Not in my gay society. I believe in monogamy for me and my partner. Others are free to do as they wish. I will not judge or impose my restrictions on others.


    But i don't have any LBGT close friends who have open relationships.
    i dont think all relationships are like that...





    i know several couples that are monogamous and several that have open relationships... you just have to be honest about what you want in the beginning
    i dont think that is true, i have quite a few gay friends and know a gay couple who have been exclusive for over 5yrs, you will find some one who feels the same way, don't worry you jst need to find the right person for you.
    There are open relationships in both homosexual and heterosexual relationships.





    I am a lesbian, and am strictly monogamous. It all depends on the individuals involved.
    If i ever meet another man, i want a relationship without any rucking around, if you love your partner then its not on to have sex with others.
    f**k that **** i'm a one man sorta guy putting it about never has appealed to me yes there r people like that (each to their own) don't mean you have to be like that... you keep it real
    It happens in both gay and straight society. Don't worry, there are plenty o' people who won't want an open relationship.
    what? huh? i didnt know this neither does my girlfriend not that shed let me anyway...not that id want her too no i want a girl or guy thats just with me
    ANY HOLES A GOAL



    that's like asking, why is orgies ok in porn.
    cuz' they're the same so the others dont get jelous

    Biggest pet peeves about boy and girl relationships?

    Either just as friends or in an actual relationship. For me, it's when girls flirt with tons of boys and lead them on, when they are in fact already in a relationship, maybe even both of them. And not just little flirting. But like her leaning her head on his shoulder. And giving him huge hugs that last for more than 30 seconds. You just don't do those things when you're in a relationship...


    So after my not so little rant, what's your guys' biggest pet peeves?Biggest pet peeves about boy and girl relationships?
    I hate when I'm talking to one of my friends...then his girlfriend comes up hugs him, glares at me then continues to hang off him while I'm talking to him.





    So over protective girls are annoyingBiggest pet peeves about boy and girl relationships?
    I'd have to say when my girlfriend refuses to consider my needs, constantly hurts my feelings, and blames me for why she does it. That's probably just the biggest one. There are lots more. Wanna hear?





    When She makes me cry and then laughs at me.





    When she locks me out of her house, I cry and scream, she pretends to call the cops on me, and then when I crawl into her window and she is sitting next to it just listening to me and laughing inside.





    When my mom constantly bothers me telling me to get insurance on my car, when I can't even afford to pay my car payment most of the time.





    When my sister only talks to me when she wants something. She never gives me anything unless it benefits her some way in the future.





    There's tons more, but I thought I'd share my biggest ones.
    It bothers every guy I know that girls are allowed to have guy friends over and talk to their ex boyfriends but guys can't be trusted to even say hi to another girl. Incredible double standards are always fun.

    Why Are open relationships ok in gay society?

    I am new to gay scene.I was taken aback when the person i am going out with said that in gay society its acceptable to have sex with person outside the relationship.





    Afterwards i met many couples like this.I am shocked.








    I did not like this as i want to have someone who is only with me.





    Please tell me if this is true and where can i find my type of relationships?Why Are open relationships ok in gay society?
    If you were my boyfriend that would be it - just me an you!Why Are open relationships ok in gay society?
    You were talking to whores. Open relationships are not okay to all homo people (neither the converse too all heteros).


    You could say it's more acceptable because if you look at it logistically, dating enough homosexual people to compare with the amount of dating that goes on between heteros is really hard, if for nother else, because the homo population is so much smaller.





    Sadly, as to not just sleep around and be just as happy you have to find that right person... just like any other people homo or hetero.
    ok, we've heard from the monogamy only crowd, now from someone who has had open relationships.





    There are many reasons for this, from immaturity to vastly different sex drives between partners. I've also seen otherwise perfect couples outside of the bedroom that did not match in it. It becomes a bit difficult when you fall in love before having sex, then find out you're both tops.


    For me, I fell madly in love with someone who I couldn't keep up with in the bedroom. We are otherwise the perfect couple, complimenting each other in so many other ways. I'd rather let him do so with me knowing instead of finding out from someone else. I can handle him doing this more than I could handle him going behind my back.


    Is it perfect? No. Is it right for anyone else? Maybe, maybe not. Is it right for me? For now, it is. As we grow in our relationship I might put it to an end.


    You can find a monogamous relationship where ever you are, as long as you know that is what you are looking for. It's not a society or cultural thing, it's personal choice.





    All I can say is find your own happiness and hold it close. If it doesn't make you happy, let it go.
    Just from my experience, but I've found that a lot of gays/bisexuals/lesbians don't want to be held back in that way. And in fact, lots of straight people feel that way as well, but they don't talk about it like we tend to in the queer community. By having open relationships, there's a bigger chance that the partners will be happier and a much smaller chance that one or both of the partners will ';cheat.'; That's a big problem in a lot of straight relationships that open relationships, no matter what the genders of the partners, don't have.
    It is NOT the sexual orientation of a person that determines whether one is in a monogamous relationship or an 'open' relationship...it is the 'individual' person themselves. You may have erred in not asking your 'friend' prior to establishing the relationship whether they intended to be faithful to you or if they were going to 'play the field'... Personally, I couldn't agree with you more...I am TOTALLY for a committed, monogamous relationship...and, that is what I am in...
    This is why many heterosexuals don't condone this lifestyle. I know heteros cheat too, but they know they are expected NOT to cheat, yet in the homo lifestlye it's expected that you do cheat. I think that is gross. It also lends credence to the HIV epidemic in the gay community. I think if gays want to be married and looked at as members of society, they need to start acting like members of society and not rabid a$$ rabbits
    Open relationships are accepted in both gay and straight society by select people. I have never personally known a gay or straight couple that had an open relationship. And I would never accept one for myself or my partner, but I feel that any consenting adult that wants that arrangement should feel free to have it.











    L
    I am bi sexual and i am strictly monogamous too.... I know several same sex couples who don't have an open relationship and i know straight couples who do have an open relationship...





    I think perhaps it's just spoken about a little more in the gay community.
    Not in my gay scene. I'm way too possessive to share my bf and he knows it. It's all up to the individual at the end of the day, I know plenty of straight couples who have open relationships and other gay couples like myself - though not to the same xtreme so I'm told.
    you can find it rite here buddy!!! lmao!


    Seriously not all gay relationship are like that. Well not the ones that i have been in anyway i think a relationship is sacred and if ur in a so called ';open relationship'; your not his bf ur his F**K buddy.
    Not in my gay society. I believe in monogamy for me and my partner. Others are free to do as they wish. I will not judge or impose my restrictions on others.


    But i don't have any LBGT close friends who have open relationships.
    i dont think all relationships are like that...





    i know several couples that are monogamous and several that have open relationships... you just have to be honest about what you want in the beginning
    i dont think that is true, i have quite a few gay friends and know a gay couple who have been exclusive for over 5yrs, you will find some one who feels the same way, don't worry you jst need to find the right person for you.
    There are open relationships in both homosexual and heterosexual relationships.





    I am a lesbian, and am strictly monogamous. It all depends on the individuals involved.
    If i ever meet another man, i want a relationship without any rucking around, if you love your partner then its not on to have sex with others.
    f**k that **** i'm a one man sorta guy putting it about never has appealed to me yes there r people like that (each to their own) don't mean you have to be like that... you keep it real
    It happens in both gay and straight society. Don't worry, there are plenty o' people who won't want an open relationship.
    what? huh? i didnt know this neither does my girlfriend not that shed let me anyway...not that id want her too no i want a girl or guy thats just with me
    ANY HOLES A GOAL



    that's like asking, why is orgies ok in porn.
    cuz' they're the same so the others dont get jelous

    Have any of you Australian women been in any interracial relationships before?

    Have you?Have any of you Australian women been in any interracial relationships before?
    Australia is a multicultural country. In my family we have Italian Dutch Austrian Aboriginal and Irish, we are all Australians. Have any of you Australian women been in any interracial relationships before?
    We don't tend to use the word 'race' in Australia, we just refer to someone's ancestry or ethnic background. But yes, because Australia is the most multicultural country in the world it's quite routine. My husband has ancestry form Burma, Holland, Japan, England, and Singaporean Chinese. There are relatively few people of African descent in Australia, although the number is increasing rapidly with many new immigrants from Sudan.
    Depends how you differentiate between different groups of people. I mean Im from Scandinavian background, while my boyfriends background is Slovenian. Looking at the two of us, we look like we are from the same background. Yet we aren't. Australia is extremely multicultural and we have people who have come here from many different countries and differing cultures.
    this race concept is an american problem, thats why negros like it here no one cares, no KKK, no american BS
    I'm white, my man is black (Aboriginal)
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  • How many serious relationships have you had?

    Please also state your age and gender.How many serious relationships have you had?
    .Probably three (discounting The school crushes) and all of them ended amicably.28yrs MaleHow many serious relationships have you had?
    One, 19, Female

    Why do people frown upon asian male+black female relationships?

    Why isn't it more common? ASnd why is it seen as odd in public?Why do people frown upon asian male+black female relationships?
    Because the two are like polar opposites, even more so than white/black couplesWhy do people frown upon asian male+black female relationships?
    Well I believe it's rare because not a lot of Asian males like Black girls or vise versa and people think things to be odd or wrong when they see something different something their not use to but don't let it get in the way all that matters is that you like her and she likes you. Remember it doesn't matter what people think
    It's true. You don't see a lot of those huh? I think it's because black girls go for black guys a lot. But their kids turn out AMAZING so I don't really know. I'd go for an asian guy myself
    You must be from California or something. I have never heard of such a thing. Next you people will start dating Martians.

    How many relationships do work after cheating has taken place?

    My bf of 3 years is cheating on me and I am about to bust him! However, I love him so much that I am afraid I may want to give him a second chance after all; however, I wonder how many relationships do work after cheating has taken place? Does it really work after that? How do you trust them again? What should I do to the ***** once I catch them?How many relationships do work after cheating has taken place?
    Hey hows it going... not sure how long ago you posted this but I'm going through something very similiar rite now but I'm on the other side, and am looking for answers to fix things. Me and my girlfreind have been dateing for three years also and two years ago we were going through a rough patch and we were both unsure what we wanted she was still meeting her ex once a month for lunch and I was unsure of what was going on between them an confronted her about it with no changeing the issue in sight, she had also just been hit on by a way older guy and didn't tell me about it until I found out, and I was unsure if this is what I wanted, to be in a year long relationship just getting into college and moving out on my own etc.. It left me confused an unsure what I wanted an one night at a party a week or so later, I was drunk an was getting hit on by a girl who I later that night ended up to hook up ( just makeing out) after it was over I sat there confused and disbelived at what I had just done, it felt good yes to feel wanted again but I was also hurt, two days later I ended up to hook up with her again an it went a little farther but when the subject of sex came up it was like I was hit by a bolt of lighting there in my bed. What the hell am I doing I love my girlfriend, why am I resulting to this, I turned to the girl an told her ';look this needs to stop, we cant have sex etc.'; and she left and I havnt talked to her since. I was ashamed with myself and disgustied I knew from that moment on my girlfriend was the girl who I wanted to spend my life... and I buried the affair I had and never did it again and the issues of the rough patch eventually fizzeled away ( except for her an her ex meeting up for lunch a few times). just 2 weeks ago my girlfriend found out about me cheating on her, and we broke up because of it... and I'll tell you I have never done so much life changing things in two weeks ever in my life. I've been meditating and praying for forgivness everywhere I go. I know now that I should have told her about the fling I had and everything but I was scared to loose her when I had just found her. My point is You'll never really know if he is changed No one can read minds. but from my experience change in people is possible. I know that I have never done what I did since I did it and if me and my gf get back together I dont even think I could look at another girl, because I know I love her so so much. make sure he is sincere and I meen really sincere if you still love him then I believe there is hope its like the beatles said '; all you need is love'; and I truly believe that. as for the trust it will take a while I still have know idea how to get it back... but with time I believe it will come. '; to err is human, to forgive Divine'; I dont want to forget about what happen with me it has taught me something so valuable, and I dont want my gf to forget either it is something that has changed our relationship but yes I do want some type of closure to the issue and a clear path forward it will be a struggle I know and it will be tough an it may last a week or years who knows but you don't unless you try, I feel and the second time round may be way better. But in the end don't worry about it if it's meent to be it's meent to be Love will find way, it has for 1,000's of years. Best of luck to you... and remember theres billions of people in this world and someone else out there is dealing with the same stuff as you no one is ever totally alone.How many relationships do work after cheating has taken place?
    Leave him. Do you really want to have to forgive him over and over again?
    trust me, its not really worth it to forgive a cheater unless :





    1. ur married with a kid/kids


    2. this is the first affair/cheating


    3. he is remorseful


    4. u loved him enough to forgive


    5. u and him are willing to work hard to rebuild trust


    6. u are willing not to bring up the issue again
    IT depends on if you can get past the thrust issue in the relationship if it will work. Most woman are more forgiving than men are.





    Only you know for sure how this has made you feel and you need to know that once they cheat they will more likely do it again. because if you stay than they feel you are accepting of this and will forgive them again for their actions. Do you see what I mean?





    Best of Luck to you

    Hypothetically if I get engaged, should I let my ex girlfriends know?All the exs broke off the relationships?

    with me. This is just a hypothetical question. I'm not currently dating anyone though the part about the exs is true.Hypothetically if I get engaged, should I let my ex girlfriends know?All the exs broke off the relationships?
    Absolutely not, it would be sort of rude to bring it up and I would think it would only stir up things between you and your exes.





    If you are friends with your exes than politely telling them is another story.I wouldn't just shoot them an email to tell them but if you are genuinely friends perhaps take them out to lunch and tell them your good news. If you are friends then they should react with happiness!Hypothetically if I get engaged, should I let my ex girlfriends know?All the exs broke off the relationships?
    Unless you have a friendly relationship with your ex and would tell her things about your life under normal circumstances (for example, if you would call her up and let her know you'd just gotten a new job and big promotion), there is no need to share the news of your engagement with her. She is no longer a part of your life, and doesn't need to be informed about your new relationship status.
    Like call them up specifically to tell them you're engaged? That seems weird to me. If they're your exes, why do they care that you're getting married, and why would you want them to know specifically? Curiously, three old boyfriends happened to have gotten in touch with me after I got engaged (one because we've maintained a loose friendship, one asking a platonic favor, and one who wanted to see me again). I told them I was engaged, but I certainly didn't look up anyone else.
    No. It would make you seem like you were saying ';See, look at me, I really am worth having.'; Instead, let the grapevine do the talking.





    In life, you don't have to tell everyone. You just have to confide in the three or so people in your life who have really big mouths, and they will tell everyone for you!
    No, not unless you are friends with them. If you don't talk to them, why would you tell them that you are getting married? That just makes it seem as though you are trying to make them jealous. And if they broke up with you, they probably do not care that you are getting married.
    You don't tell them directly. Post it on your facebook, myspace, and any other social networking account you have and let it get back to them.
    No, there will be no point in letting your ex-girlfriend know. However, if you have an ex who is jeopardizing the relationship with you and your fiancee' then you let her know (so she can back off)
    you tell your baby mamas but not the ones you never see or speak to.





    unless your exes are still a part of your life then there is no reason to tell them.
    hypothetically, no.
    No, not unless you are currently friends with them. Or if you run into them on the street its fine to mention it.
    Not unless you're close friends with them or still obsessed...
    HELL NO Y WOULD YOU WANT TO DO THAT...So they can come to ur wedding???
    no, it would seem like you want to rekindle something.
    um!








    NO

    How do we assign value to and prioritize the relationships amonghumans, animals, and the natural environment?

    In a monetary sense, we can compare the services that the natural environment does for humans with the cost of humans (and their technology) doing it. That puts a monetary amount on it. This is relatively objective, dependent on national economies. In the ';real world';, this is most important and priorities are shifted on, if the environmental problem, affects humans and to what degree. This results in things like the Clean Air Act, the formation of the EPA, etc.


    Political pressure also might come from the public's emphasis on the intrinsic value of the natural environment. But this is much more subjective. My value on biodiversity might be less so than yours.How do we assign value to and prioritize the relationships amonghumans, animals, and the natural environment?
    Humans come first, next would be animals that serve man in thier order of immportance to man, and than the enviroment as to how it can be used to serve man. All other considerstions are worthless

    Grew up without a mother. How does that impact relationships I have?

    My mother died when I was very young, and I haven't had another motherly figure in my life since. But I was raised by a really great dad. Does anyone know how the absence of a mother affects:


    1.) relationships I have with adults, especially adult women?


    2.) the kind of mother I'll turn out to be myself?Grew up without a mother. How does that impact relationships I have?
    Relationships with other adults, especially women may be difficult, after all the FIRST adult in your life is your mother, your very first relationship is with your mom and you tend to base future relationships upon this. I am a single parent (male) and I have a 19 yr old daughter who has not had a mother/mother figure in her life since she was 6. She has struggled all her life with forming friendly relationships with other girls her age and with a lot of women. She is going to be a mother in 6 months and she is totally lacking in skills needed to care for and raise a baby. She also has a problem with choosing decent boy friends, she has never seen the interaction between a husband and wife, and most importantly how to define herself as a Wife, a mother and a woman. A father can definitely provide love, nurturing and a lot of things a girl needs, but it is never the same in many areas......a Dad knows the basics about periods, breasts, your body etc, but we have never experienced your hormones, mood swings and all the things that define a female.


    As for the kind of mother you will be, that depends on you, your family and your natural instincts. Most likely you will be an excellent mother. Remember no female gives birth and a switch turns on and you are instantly transformed into someone who knows everything. You learn daily, just as a child learns.Grew up without a mother. How does that impact relationships I have?
    Well honestly I believe you choose what mother you become but if you think really does affect the outcome then I'm pretty sure you'd do fine. You will probably just want to be there for your child. You'll wanna be the mother figure because you are. If anything this is just something you'll see you grew up without of mom. You being a mom will help you see what it's like to have one by your child's eyes. I think that even though you grew up with love you'll always be curious. As for relationships with older women maybe one would stick out as motherly to you.
    My mother left my two brothers and me when I was 3 years old. The only way it has affected me, I think, is to make me closer to the people I DO have. I was fortunate enough to have a wonderful father, however he died when I was only 9. I was sent to live with my uncle(dad's brother) who died only 15 months later. Then, I was sent to live with my grandparents and my grandfather died 21 months later. My grandmother raised me by herself from then on and did a GREAT job! However, when I was only 15 years old she became sick while still raising my younger brother and I. I was in a wonderful relationship for app. a year and with no other choice I got married (i was only 15 and my husband was 20) we took custody of my little brother and had a baby 10 months later. I wouldn't trade anything that has happened to me. It has made me a stronger person. My point in telling you all of this is I believe me not knowing my mother has made me a BETTER mom. Knowing that she walked out on us has made me want to become the PERFECT mom to my girls(I have 4). I do think that it has made me ';attach'; to people to strongly:) You can be a wonderful mom if you choose to. I think you can have strong, healthy relationships with whomever you want! BE STRONG!!! BTW: I have been married for almost 10 years now:)
    awww im sorry to hear about ur mom!


    u control how you act with adults - men and women.


    and u can be any kind of mother you want, you have that choice. im dont think not having a mother growing up will affect too much.
    1)You aren't good with females and probably not a good person/woman yourself.


    2)The same as your mother -- nothing, you'll probably abandon your kids too.
    It impacts relationships as much as you let it. If you are that worried about it, seek counseling.
    It affects you only as much as you let it. You be the mother you would have wanted.
    I agree with ';The Guy whos right'; be the mother you would have wanted.
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  • She loves me but is scared due to past relationships, now she wont answer the phone or reply texts?

    I sent an email telling her how much I love her, but I am walking away because I can not take the hurt from being pushed away. I then said you do not need to reply or text, im just going to disappear. She did not reply, wouldn't that warrant a response? whats really going on here?She loves me but is scared due to past relationships, now she wont answer the phone or reply texts?
    If She Has Been Hurt By Relationships In The Past Then What You Have Done Has Probably Brought Back All Those Memories!! If You Love Someone You Are Meant To Be There For Them Throught It All!! It's Not Always Easy But It Is Worth It. =)

    Long distance relationships do they work?

    So i am falling in love with the perfect guy for me. The only problem is that he lives in Scotland and i live in Texas, USA. He is 18 and i am 17 and i we can't fly to each other cause we don't have enough money.


    We talk on webcam and we text and email. I was just wanting to know if long distance relationships ever work out? Please no people saying he might be a 40 year old pedifial or anything like that cause he is not.Long distance relationships do they work?
    I'm sure there are incidences where they ever have worked, but---





    With no history of an in-person';, physical relationship, I would say it would be very, very difficult to make a long distance relationship work. If you had met in person, developed a relationship and then were separated, it would d be hard. Without this foundation, I would say it would next to impossible. Especially at your age, you both should be enjoying the physical companionship of one another. I think you'll find that both of you, over time, are going to want to enjoy having someone you can kiss, hug, hold hands with, etc. As long as you are prepared to either give or receive a webcam-based or email break-up, I wouldn't put all of my emotional eggs in this basket.Long distance relationships do they work?
    Well, unless you met each other in real life and not online, and then under some circumstance had to move away from each other, that's the only time a long distance relationship is really viable.





    Unless you actually got to know each other in person, there's really not much point in pursuing this. It's easier to talk to someone over the internet, but if you spent that time talking to people where you live, you'd fine guys that are really nice too.





    And, unless you have enough money to make trips to see each other every few months, there really is no point. o_O Unfortunately.





    I'm in a long distance relationship right now between Toronto and Singapore, so I am not just talking out of my ***. I know how these things work heheh. You should have met him first, and THEN pursued a LD relationship, you're going about it the wrong way. Keep up with him as buddies or pen pals or whatever, but because of the fact that nothing physical will happen, just find someone wherever you live, it's much more satisfying.
    well they dont really work out cause you never know what he is doing behimd your back. even tho her might not do anything. and anyways i know this one couple and he lives in AZ and she lives in CA and they see each other about every weekend because her mom is a pilot and she gets free air fares. so i dont think a long distance relationship will work because you cant see him like you would a normal boyfriend
    ur safe if u hv toked to him over the webcam, but still not 100% safe. cos he may be reading out the dialogues at the back and telling some other guy, younger or older, to lip sync for him. i know it sounds crazy, but we have to consider all possibilities, right? after all its a matter abt ur life. so play it safe. dont trust anyone whom u hv not met, be it even if u hv seen him or her on the webcam. anything is possible. protect urself. long distance relationships, in most cases, i wud say, atleast 95% cases, fails. this is cos the ability to sustain oneself from meeting the other, goes away wid the passage of time. so my advice for u wud be to back out.
    Probably not for the long term. I think of long distance in terms of 3 or 4 hours separation. Still, you have the possibility of the future. Maybe, a holiday together. Or attending same college. The youth factor makes your chances greater, than the percentage would be if you were both settled into a career. Hope it works out for both of you. Enjoy what you have.
    yes they do work if you make them if you love each other then you can make it work


    ive been with my girlfriend online for over 2 months but ive known her for 7


    were hoping to get married





    when you have enough money or you guys could put your money together so one of you can travel to the other
    yes they work im in one and have been for 1 year and 1/2 now, and i know hes not cheating. if you trust him they will work!


    good luck


    oh btw im 14 and my bfs 16 and he only lives 30 min. away but still its long distance
    ugh... that's a hard one.. but i would have to say they CAN work, it just depends on if hes the right guy! so i really hope it works out for you in the end, and good luck.
    for me, they never work.


    that's just my experience so i don't waste my time on them. but if you really feel that it could work and you trust him enough, it might work out. just be careful.
    yeperoodle they work! theyre the best kind of relatioiship. and the best part is you can cheat on them and they wont even know. you go girl!
    If he's not cheating on you or reverse. but its hard to know, there's a limit to how much you really know about that person. It might work.
    No
    depends on how they live...
    yes they work, it is true love.
    no



    never, dont evn bother its either u meet anotha guy or he meet anotha grl... life
    They can work but you have to make them work.


    Im in a LDR with my girlfriend (she lives in NV, USA + I live in England). Its worked for us but it is not easy at times. You have to talk alot (I speak to her everyday - no exception).





    We try to see each other every few months but you defiantly need to look at meeting if you haven't met before. I met my girlfriend online and when we met (i flew there) I was so nervous but let me say it was magical.





    Tell your boyfriend to get skype and he can call your phone for 1p (a penny) a minute if your not at home. Dont let anyone tell you it wont work or else it WILL fail. If you both want it then it will work just be VERY patient.





    I trust my girlfriend and she trusts me - theres no differencee between long and short distance relationship as they both need trust. Not everyone is the same - there are some genuine people out there. Good Luck and I hope it works out for you.

    Are changing gender roles in media and work affecting relationships -?

    between girls and boys at school, college, and in the average household?Are changing gender roles in media and work affecting relationships -?
    As masculinity continues to be marginalized, relationships between the sexes will suffer.Are changing gender roles in media and work affecting relationships -?
    Yes; in various ways that depend on the individuals. As time goes on, with each generation, individuals are less confused about gender roles as the culture settles down in a greater degree of equality, while at the same time seeking more of it because we're not quite there yet. Some women want to wear the pants, and have trouble in relationships because they need a man who is a wussy in order to have a man who follows her and her career goals and lets her lead. Most women want to make genuinely mutual decisions and not have a power conflict in the relationship but in those cases, the men often want power and a certain amount of it. They may not want to dominate, but feel just a little above the woman so as to not bruise his ego. Most women don't mind this so much because they like to be overpowered and submissive, to a degree. They don't want to be disrespected but do like a man to be bigger in many ways.
    Relationships based on equality and mutual respect are of course superior to those based on inequality and disrespect. However, gender roles are better taught at home, where values become internalized, and then they can carry through to the media and work situations.
    hahaha sooo much!!! women fighting for their rights has now kicked them in the butt!!! not their fault..im a woman and I experience it daily.


    women faught tobe THOUGHT of as equal and for respect, well deserved..also for ability to get awayfrom abusive men! Thank God!


    but!!! now a woman HAS to work..... HAS to go to mcdonalds and flip burgers with her kids at home... thats not right! and now MEN have (as always ) became ridiculous and always try to take advantage of women one way or other..so now men LOOK for women for THEIR money..roles have reversed!


    people DONT realize..... thatif all women said at the same time (100 million women in this country).. ';im not going to work anymore';


    then for the economy to survive and stay the same.. themen would suddenly earn DOUBLE!!! so for the one man and one woman making $8 each at mcdonalds..the man would suddenly make $16 an hour.. its simple economy..simple math. (im not figuring inhto this equation the illegal aliens here)


    but anyway... no woman ever fought with blood and tears to work all day at a dead end retial or fast food job..with her kids at home..... they fought for freedom because men were MEAN to them..plain and simple..its a womans RIGHT to stay home and have a man care for her every need... but to be dependent on a man is scary cuz theyre just not always that good! can youimagine how men would bust their *** and provide your EVERY need ....... if women didnt work.. and if NO woman EVERRRRRRRRRR had sex outside of marriage???? even the highest paid prostitute could NEVER compete with how much a married woman is cared for!!! this would get rid of prostitution..... its all really sad.


    of course anywoman could still work.. tobe a great thing like president,lawyer scientist etc... im talking about the MAJORITY working stupid jobs that they dont even want to but HAVE to..which takes time away from relationship with husband and kids..what a woman has to offer is worth ALLLLL the money a man makes..she is the reason he goes to work!!!! women arent wired the same..so when a man depends on a woman to pay half thebills and THEN expects sex from her when she is so damn tired her inner female nature kicks in and says wait a minute!!!!! DIVORCE!!!!!!!!!!! it's ridiculous for a man to have a female ';financial partner'; thats what other men are for!!!!! go find a man to be a financial partner!!! start a business or whatever....


    Imean if that man expects money from his wife andsex and good motherhood etc etc he is a dumbass.
    You mean if someone is in a relationship and they change their gender? Like an operation? That would ';affect'; the relationship a great deal and this can not be overstated, I repeat.

    Are Bad Relationships Wasted Time or a Learning Experience?

    I gave her every chance to go back to him, but she said it was absolutely over.


    Then she goes away for the night with him.


    If she wanted to be with him, why did she waste my time?Are Bad Relationships Wasted Time or a Learning Experience?
    We live... and we learn... and sometimes it hurts like hell.Are Bad Relationships Wasted Time or a Learning Experience?
    Gotta be assertive about what you want, bro





    Everything in life is a learning experience





    Wasting time can be a learning experience
    Both wasted time and learning experience.I want to say something for her if it doesn't hurt u.Can I?





    She is a b***h,she is a trash,let her go to hell,don't give her a f**k.
    Relationships always build experience, no matter how worthless they may seem.





    She does not know what she wants.
    No relationship waste of time if there fukkking involvd
    anyway bad relationships are learning experiences.
    My boyfriend just walked off and left me today. He was a total waste of my time. But, i did learn not to date guys younger than me anymore!
    learning experience. but dont waste time on a relationship that you want to end.
    learning experience, and give a lil more details plz

    Do you think woman with children, who continuously has relationships with abusive men, should have her kids?

    removed from her care? I know WAY too many kids growing up in this mess. Abuse, drugs, Some of these women think a ';man'; in their lives is more important than the welfare of the kids! I hate the thought of the kids in foster care, but something has to be done! What do you think?Do you think woman with children, who continuously has relationships with abusive men, should have her kids?
    I agree with you totally, some women just don't know how to be good mothers, and it's always the children that pay the price for their mistakes :(





    Take care you, Lulu xDo you think woman with children, who continuously has relationships with abusive men, should have her kids?
    I agree with you, kids are affected by their parents and all that goes on, so if she is so desperate to be with a man then she should give up her children and obviously she puts herself first.
    Yes, I think the children should be taken from women who do not show proper judgement and care.
    i think that woman needs to realize that she's smarter than that.....


    she just needs to make sure that she keeps those abusive men out of her and her kids life.

    What do you think about people who start their relationships online?

    so, guy meets girl online and they chat and after a while they become intrested in each other. do u think that it can evolve into a real love/some other feelings.. or u dont believe that it can ever become anything real and is nothing than just a stupid chatWhat do you think about people who start their relationships online?
    I think its great. People are getting tired of the same old crappy way of meeting people. It can happen. The last 3 guys I dated I met online. I agree...its kinda like a blind date the first time you meet...depending on how long you chat before meeting.What do you think about people who start their relationships online?
    I SURE HOPE IT CAN, I MEAN WHY CAN'T IT? I MET MY BOYFRIEND ON THE INTERNET AND WE ARE MEETING IN PERSON FOR THE FIRST TIME TUESDAY. ITS NOT MUCH DIFFERENT THAN A BLIND DATE IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT.
    Why is chatting online any different than chatting in person?
    met my wife online 10 years ago.....2 kids later, we are A-OK
    I met my boyfriend online, and we've been together 3 months now. He is definitely the one that I've been looking for and I love him with all my heart. Go for it and good luck!!!!!
    well my gf i met her online thign r going great she is the one for me we being it will3 months in sept.14
    I dated a guy online for about two months.


    We broke up because it was too difficult to keep up.


    But its fine to meet them online i think.
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  • Can ghosts or sprits in your house hold effct relationships oe effect others around you?

    Yes of course ghost/spirit in a household can effect relationships. And others around you. If you feel the ghost/spirit is a problem, ask it nicely to leave. help it cross into the light where loved ones are waiting.Can ghosts or sprits in your house hold effct relationships oe effect others around you?
    You are in the ';science and mathematics'; section. There is no scientific indication that ghosts and spirits exist, and therefore they cannot be discussed here.





    You might have better luck in the ';myths and legends'; section.Can ghosts or sprits in your house hold effct relationships oe effect others around you?
    Sometimes my good friend...ghosts get us messed up with their own loved ones, or may know who we are, but most ghosts don't know their dead until you show them. They can have an influence on you and a love.
    I think they do but it depends on wad kind of spirits. If it's restless ones than maybe it will effect the one's around you. Get a priest to lay them to rest so they wont bother you.





    Peaceful ones usually dont harm people.





    Don't disturb them and they wont disturb you.
    no such things as ghosts and spirits...only in your head...

    What are your feelings about gay or bi (etc.) relationships?

    do you support free love? do you support guy people or are you against them?





    im just taking a survey, not judging people. just want to no wat you think.What are your feelings about gay or bi (etc.) relationships?
    I find it so hard to believe that people in America (and other countries as well, but for now let's just talk about the US) can still act so barbaric and idiotic. We've abolished slavery in the states, given women the rights they deserve, etc. yet we don't allow same sex marriage?


    It's just plain stupid. Homosexuality is not a sin. Everyone who thinks so need to get off their high horse and realize that gays are people too.


    We claim to be the best country in the world, yet we deny a certain group of people the same rights as others. It's incredibly narrow-minded.


    And that's not my opinion. It's a fact.








    edit: Fonsten- Homosexuality was considered an illness in the dark ages. People also believed the world was flat and we were the center of the Universe back then.What are your feelings about gay or bi (etc.) relationships?
    I support all types of relationships between consenting adults.





    No one can be completely straight or gay, our sexuality is gene-based and multi-faceted. We are all in free love with every type of person. You just have an orientation which describes what gender you most prefer. So naturally everyone's atleast a little bisexual or asexual.
    I support LGBT people. We're all human, we should deserve the same rights no matter what. It doesn't matter what religion, ethnicity, sex. orientation, shape, size, etc. I just think we should have the same rights, opportunities, and everything man.
    I support gays and bisexuals.


    if it's who you are, it's who you are.





    In my opinion, it's worse to be dishonest with everyone than to just accept who you are.





    Besides, isn't it better to be happy than to worry about how you are viewed or be with a person you truly don't want to be with?
    I am 100% for gay, lesbian relationships.





    My dads twin brother is Gay and married.





    I love my uncle and his Husband.





    I think that Gay and Lesbian love is stronger than Straight Love.





    Because they have to fight for there love.





    They are judged and mistreated every single day.





    I am for gay/Lesbian relationships I doubt God now.





    I don't understand why it is wrong.





    How can you tell someone they can not love some one and that there feelings are wrong.





    When I have kids..I will support them and love them no matter what.





    These people are human beings they are not sick.





    I was in church and the pastor actually said:';Gay and Lesbians are as sick as a Child Molesters and they should not be looked at any differently then Child Molesters';





    All I have to say is If God is real and heaven and hell are real.





    And just for example if someone told me I was going to hell for supporting them I'd keep on supporting.





    I'd rather burn in hell then be in heaven with judge mental assholes.





    I'm sorry I am going on and on a bout this.





    I just feel very strongly a bout this.





    People just judge them before they get to know them.





    They think all Lesbians are Butch and dress like boys.





    No, That is there choice just like we choose what we want to look like.





    And People think gays talk like girls and dress like girls.





    They can be really manly guys and still be gay.





    If you were to meet my uncle you would never guess he's gay.





    Girls hit on him all the time.





    Anyways.......





    If gay and lesbian love is not accepted then our love should not be either.
    I say let people live... i dont personally care... i wanna know why lesbians are segregated from gay... Gay is someone MALE OR FEMALE who dates/has sexual relations with someone of the same sex... Yet ignorant people here try to separate the two and say I HATE GAYS BUT I LOVE LESBIANS... they are the same thing... you mean I HATE GAY GUYS but either way... not important... I hope everyone gets laid...
    whatever makes you happy is fine with me.





    oh, and mcmuffin: how can gays possibly be wrong if lesbians are right? lesbians are gay dude.
    Mcmuffin is an idiot...how can you contradict yourself like that, gays are wrong but lesbians are cool? Lesbians are gay you f***ing retard.
    i support gays, bis, and lesbians as well as straights.





    love knows no gender.
    People should do what they want as long as they aren't restricting others freedom.
    **** OFF SKANK!!
    They're all wrong.





    But I still engage in them
    today i went to my gay support group, and after that to a GSA meeting.


    so im pretty pro-gay
    not wrong at all...


    whatever makes us happy right
    Homosexuality is unnatural. Despite what people say, it is not common in the animal world. It is also much less common in humans than some people say. (The 10% claim is absolutely bogus). Realize that at one time, homosexuality was considered a mental illness. While I'm not sure I'd call it a mental illness, it certainly is not the norm - in nature or in society. I believe that a blatant outward homosexual display of affection can have an adverse effect on a child's development. But what two people do behind the doors of their own house it up to them.
    i hate queers when they dress all in pink and have too many piercings and talk with their voice all woman like and walk like a total homo, thats wen i have a problem





    and also, i believe gay people choose to be gay, they could be straight, and i blame thier parents for making them like that.. maybe instead of letting your child draw pictures, you should make him do lawn work. a guy turns out the way he is parents raised him





    one more thing, yall giving me thumbs down cuz i disagree with you? grow up please, everyone has their own opinion i dont thumbs down all your answers just cuz i dont agree with it
    i have no problems with lesbians.





    but as long as gay guys aren't gay around me, i generally don't have a problem with them either.
    They are pathetically misguided.
    gays r wrong....lesbians r cool and straihgts r cool too