Is it okay to hang out alone with a friend of the opposite sex when both friends are in relationships?

and I sorta didn't tell my boyfriend that my friend were gonna hang out for the fact that I didn't want him to tell my best guyfriend...


is that bad?Is it okay to hang out alone with a friend of the opposite sex when both friends are in relationships?
not at all, as long as you're just friends, it's fine. I see no harm in it %26lt;333Is it okay to hang out alone with a friend of the opposite sex when both friends are in relationships?
It's perfectly fine to have friends of the opposite sex (and hang out with them) - it isn't fine to be dodgy or dishonest.
yes thats bad..it is never ok to lie. you should introduce them, and then your bf should have no problem with you guys hanging out...UNLESS they personally know each other and dont like each other, or if he has valid reason like the guy is alwyas hitting on you or touching you innappropriately. and you should be fine with him hanging out with his female friends too.
If you kept it a secret, there must be a reason.....guilt?


There shouldn't be anything wrong with friends hanging out regardless of sex.....but if you are hiding something, you are acting quite guilty..........so tell the truth.
If one is comfortable in their relationship, one should be able to associate with members of the opposite sex.


However:


If hanging out results in an attraction on both sides then,


new and different relationships may develop!


Assuming no one is married, I would say, go ahead and ';hang out';


If some of you , hanging out, are married, it might be best to invite your spouse along!


Good Luck


Happy Hanging!
As long as you two didn't do anything to feel guilty about, I wouldn't worry about it. You may want to look at the reasons you didn't want your boyfriend to know tho. Maybe you have hidden feelings for this person? Just watch out what kinds of cues you give him when you are alone.





It is never ok to flat out lie about something tho in a relationship. You have to have trust!
well dependz ...if ur bf and his gf is ok with it then yeah y not but if u have to hide something it meanz it is wrong y not going out in pairs?
Your in big trouble.
if nothing happend, then i dont see the problem in two friends hanging out. just because you are in relationships doesnt mean you arent allowed to continue a friendship
You shouldn't feel the need to hide anything from your boyfriend.





I don't see anything wrong with hanging out with a guy who's just a friend...but some people are more jealous than others.





It's fine...if you don't lie about it.
It sounds like you are quite possibly not ready for a mature relationship. At the very least, you should have told him. The only way it would be ok is to insist your boyfriend be able to come along.
sure pne of my best friends is a guy we hang at his place and and were both in relationships I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. Also you shouldn't be scared to tell your bf that you are hanging with your best guy friend somtimes a little jelousy can make the relationsip better anyway! Im not sayin don't tell him if he has issues with it than he is being to controling you deserve to have a life ouside of your relationship as well
well, everytime I have a female friend they always think I'm going out with her. Lame,








Sure it fine tho :)
if you didn't tell your boyfriend 'cause he didn't kno about your guyfriend...and your guyfriend doesn't kno you have a boyfriend...then that's uncool.





*cheers*
There's no such thing as a platonic relationship. I would never ever hang out alone with another man, despite how much I enjoyed his company. If we are friends, my husband comes too.
Hanging out in and of itself is innocent. If you two are flirting, cuddling or making out then it's bad. Go ahead and tell your bf, your hiding it is making it much worse than it is.
It's perfectly acceptable to hang out with someone of the opposite sex while both are in relationships.


It is not appropriate to lie about it to your significant other.
yes as long as it's hanging out and not sex and kissing.
Well, the fact you didn't tell your boyfriend would make it appear that you have something to hide even if that isn't the case...
Lets Just put it this way....If you feel that you need to keep it a secret then you probably shouldn't be doing it.
its fine as long as you two dont do anything~


just because you have a bf doesn't mean you cant hangout with old friends~