Saturday, August 21, 2010

How come the more good looking women have many relationships but the ';regular'; looking women don't?

As in, why do those really good looking women go through relationships and relationships and take forever to get married, when the ';regular';/';ok'; looking women go through maybe one or two relationships and get married earlier?How come the more good looking women have many relationships but the ';regular'; looking women don't?
Because the pretty girls always get asked out on dates and always has guys competing for them so they move on pretty quickly to the other guy who may seem better. Average looking girls like me only get a few so we are able to stay and actually feel out a guy before we know if he's the right one for us or not. We don't have that many to chose from so it's not really that difficult. It's like when you go to a candy store. If there's too wide a variety it's much more difficult to chose, you may end up getting about 10 different candies. But if you go to a store with only a few candies you'll just get one. It's the same concept. I've only had three relationships and then I got married because I'm one of those average looking girls. I know many girls in my school who had many relationships and some are still not married.





Another reason too is that some guys only want that pretty girl for one reason only, sex. When they get it it's good bye to you. They don't want to carry that type of girl home to meet the parents. The average ones most often tend to be decent dressers etc and they are the type to carry home to your parents and you won't have to worry about them around your friends either.How come the more good looking women have many relationships but the ';regular'; looking women don't?
I think that some girls start having ';relationships'; earlier in life. I can remember girls at school who were ';in love'; at fifteen, and other girls who didn't have their first ';love'; until they were in their twenties.





I don't know about any correlation with looks to be honest, but their are certain kinds of girls who start having relationships much younger. I didn't have a serious boyfriend until I was eighteen, that was because I didn't see the point in going out with any of the boys who asked me earlier - since I didn't REALLY like them. The man I am with at the minute is the first person I've really been in love with and I hope this is the one that will last.





I think it's strange to have a lot of relationships and claim they were all serious - I have a friend who says she has been in love eight times. I don't believe that's true. I think love is much rarer and more special than that. You can't fall in love repeatedly with so many men in a short space of time.





Maybe the girls you speak of take love and relationships less seriously than some other girls.
Really good looking people have the option of going through many relationships and still have the ability to get married. Such people, as well as rich, famous, and powerful people, are more sought after than your Plain Jane or Johnnie Regular. They can pick and choose, sometimes at random, when deciding to hunker down with a partner.





So such people, male or female, can pick whoever THEY want, not someone other people decide who they should marry.





That's life. Get used to it.
Some people date for the wrong reasons. A beautiful girl doesn't want to be with a guy she deems ugly if she can be with someone who she sees as hot. I went to high school with a girl who was very plain. That's the way she liked it. She is married and has 2 kids. He husband is average. They are together because of personality first, attraction after. Those relationships last. Dating someone for looks and hoping your personality adds up doesn't last.
Because around the early twenties and younger, people have a shallow mindset which results in people dating based solely on physical appearance. With that said, people often over look the average men and women for the physically hott people. Therefore, the more physically attractive people get more experience in the dating world.
The more attractive women get more men going after them, but also a higher proportion of those relationships are based on mere physical attraction, leading to later dissatisfaction. Average looking people (not just women) have to make more effort to start a relationship based on personality compatibility.
I've noticed this, no idea. Perhaps because less men are willing to ask the really good-looking women out. Reasons could be intimidation, fear of rejection, (often by woman's beauty). This could also be why you see ';average'; looking guys with ';pretty'; girls.
We get it right the first or second time and don't have to flit constantly from boyfriend to boyfriend desperately seeking validation.





It's not about quantity, it's about quality.
because they are perhaps less self conscious





most woman who are super model looking are think that because of thier looks no man is good enough for them they are picky and never really happy.
More attractive women are possibly bewildered by the sheer choice available to them.
Because they are shallow and only want to be seen with the great guys. They don't know true love and may never find it.
I'm curious about where your ';data'; came from...

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