Do you think older women get equal treatment when it comes to relationships with younger guys?

It seems older guys get to play the field but that this is less acceptable for older gals. Do you agree or disagree? Anyone with experiences to share?Do you think older women get equal treatment when it comes to relationships with younger guys?
I agree that it's a double standard.


It also depends on what the woman looks like and if everyone knows how old she really is. Seems this is only appropriate in Hollywood.





Age in my opinion, is just a number. We don't fall in love with numbers ;we fall in love with the person. It's unfortunate, but would we give ourselves permission to fall in love with someone if they're not of a certain age?





I was in two relationships with younger guys. The first was ten years younger, the second was sixteen years younger. I didn't look older. Everyone always thought we were about the same age.





I've also been in relationships with older men than me. Those relationships are more about companionship and friendship.





I do know that older women have a lot of pressure when they are in these relationships to look good and do everything they can to stay looking young.





There is a certain immaturity that younger guys DO bring to relationships, so this is also another factor. They like the bar scene, video games, etc.. Just not emotionally mature.





I really didn't see much difference in the sex factor. Yes, they can do it maybe one or two times more than a older guys . The myth that this is what older women are looking for, is totally wrong. But the QUALITY is different than a more experienced lover.





I am not against these relationships. You just have to take them as they are and move on.Do you think older women get equal treatment when it comes to relationships with younger guys?
Any May/December relationship is going to be the butt of jokes, but the older woman/younger man combo is rarer because there are fewer independently wealthy women than men and the women are smart enough to know he's only in it for the money and aren't foolish enough to believe it's a real relationship like men believe.
IDK, But Thanks For The 2
I agree it is not fair but it is truth. Older women are thougth to be dumb because he must want her money and Oh she is robbing the cradle and he just wants a mom. I do not think that it is true but many people look at it that way. I also think that as you get older you care less about what other people think. Older women today are not what older women were in the past. some of us would fool ya good in the club or walking down the street so do not sell us old babes short
Women have a shelf life.





Men do not.





You might not like this but it's biology and can't be changed. If you foolishly waste your younger years with perversion and don't get with the important task of marrying a decent man and raising a family, you are basically screwed.





Hope you like cats.
Women have the same opportunities as men do. Moreso, in the world today. If a woman wants to date a younger guy and does not, she has no one but herself to blame for it.





Heck, I'd have no problem dating a woman older than myself. She'd probably be more grounded and ready for committment, with less fantastic expectations than the spoiled younger ones today.
It seems that no matter how progressive we become as a society, people will never really accept the ';December-June'; romance when it comes to women. The playing field is so unlevel - too many men in prison, dead, or older with wives. There is a middle gap out there where men are missing. I am a mature woman and had a relationship for 5 years with a man who was 20 years my junior. I'm not sure a relationship like this can work - there are so many issues against you making it, interfering with the relationship. The bottom line is I was too 'independant' for him. The relationship became 'me-taking-care-of him and I did not feel that was the direction we began. He stopped contributing to the relationship and a relationship cannot exist with only one person participating.
very interesting question now i would be tempted to say : no men got more chance but the truth is that i am 37 years old and the man i have had through my life always been younger.... its the honest truth and i never lookded for younger man it just happened this way.....





So yes in theory men will be more lucky as we do not necessarly want a younger man which they prefer a younger woman.... but in some cases it is different but dont ask me why i really dont know....





Been dreaming to find a man at least of my age.... hi hi hi