And is there any situations where it wouldn't be a good idea? Like with an ex or something? What if it's not an ex? what if you're not ';exclusive'; but agree not to screw other people?Do you think sex only relationships are a good idea?
Only if it's agreeable to both sexes. It will be for most men. But just doing it with strangers, or some one night stand, isn't a good idea for many reasons, including S.I.Ds and AIDs etc.
However, if you were close and intimate with someone and are still friends, and you aren't in another relationship, and still have strong sexual urges, you and your ex partner, may decide, to be Friends with Benefits. As long as both agree, it's more of a stop gap issue, and when you or your partner, find another significant other, the sex will no longer happen.Do you think sex only relationships are a good idea?
if it is a sex only relationship, and you are not exclusive, they you shouldn't have to agree not to sleep with other people, just agree you are going to be honest with each other and be safe about it. sex with an ex is ok, as long as you are OVER him/her if you are not completely over them, you will end up getting hurt. but yea, sex only relationships are great, especially if you don't have time for a long term one or if you aren't ready to commit, just make sure you are safe about it.
Well I don't know how old you are. If you are a adult it can be okay to have a friend in which you have relations with. In a relationship that is just friendship and sex you don't need rules or explanations. Just have fun when you are hanging out and if it happens it happens. If jealousy becomes a part it won't work. If you get to that point that is when you need to step back and decide if you want a relationship or not. Once jealously becomes a part the friends with benefits won't work. I had this with one of my best friends before I was married. I don't feel there was anything wrong with it. I am still glad that I had that experience. The only regret I have is not taking more advantage of it before I settled down. He was hot. LOL!!!!!!!!
Love,
Michelle
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