You tell him to STFU.
He's thinking about his past relationships too much and comparing them to what he has now. Even if it's not intentional, that's not right and disrespectful to you.
Those things need to stay in the past. Tell him to get off it, in your own words. He shouldn't make you feel like just another girl he's with. Boy needs to start getting his head in the present, where you are.What do you do if a guy keeps talking about his past relationships?
Tell him, first of all, that this continued talk of the ex-girlfriends is really starting to grate on your nerves. You probably understand that he needs someone to blow his steam of and talk to, but this topic is reserved to his best friend's ears... not his new girlfriend.
I think it's kind of rude to keep bringing up the leftovers like that. This guy obviously has some baggage, and you need to decide if you'll stick around and wait for him to be ready for the real deal... wait for him to move on and put all of his focus into you and him and the moment.
If you've been together for a long time, then go for it. You're close enough. Discuss. If he really needs to talk about it and bring it up, then he probably needs to find someone else to talk about it with, because it's just rude to do it in front of you, in my opinion.
Good luck! :D
He could be thinking of the things they've done to him effected him, and when he looks at you he see's a bit of them in you, and how you've effected him and he's afraid your going to hurt him or he's telling you stories of good/bad stuff about them so make sure you don't hurt him with the same things they've done to him, if that helps.
Leave, he hasn't moved on yet. Ok, maybe don't just leave. You can tell him that you'd rather not hear anything about his ex's. Most people don't. It would be a fair request to make that he doesn't bring them up. Or, you could start telling him how large your ex was and see if he starts to get it.
usually if hes talking about one certain ex then he is still not over her...if hes talking about all this exes then he might be trying to make you jealous or show off that's he's had a lot of girlfriends..(is he insecure??) i would ask him why he does that, and ask him to stop. it would make me uncomfortable.
My boy used to do this to. Nicely ask him to stop bringing up past relationships, tell him you don't feel comfortable talking about it.
Explain to him that you prefer that he doesn't continually talk about his ex's, and if he doesn't
respect your wishes, get someone else. He's pulling you down with his baggage from the past
he's still wrapped up with his ex.. he cares about his past..enough to talk about it.. all the feelings of hurt or whatever..~
May be he has not moved on form them yet or may be comparing you to them by certain things you do
Maybe hes thinking out loud and comparing you to them.
you have to tell him becauase he doesn't know it bothers you (if it does)
hi Amy..he sounds like a insecure dick head that treats you like ****. get a new GOOD boyfriend.
that's just rude, I never talk about my ex.
not sure butt
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